Hi, I feel lucky to find the forum, as I think this is the last hope.

I am going through a bad phase for a long time, almost for 10-15 years. I don't know what might be responsible but one thing I can notice is the recurring nos' like 4 and 8 in my life. No matter how much I try but they do occur, for good or bad I can't decide. I have been unsuccessful always and now it's giving me depression and other problems which is really affecting my family. It's like I have no control on myself.

Also there is this birthdate thingy I have noticed, my actual is different fromthe one I used in my all legal documents like school / college certificates and all. I really really need help to solve my difficult time if it's possible by nurmerology, or atleast it would solve the dilemma.

the 4 and 8  are powerful numbers and can bring good results but both  do require time  and HARD WORK. THE FOUR  STRUCTURE AND ORDER/FRUSTRATION   8 BALANCE MASTERY OF THE MATERIAL WORLD /KARMA ,MOVEMENT ,REBIRTH    I WILL LOOK AT YOUR DATE OF BIRTH  AND GET BACK WITH YOU  YOUR NAME DOES HAVE AN EFFECT  FULL NAME AT BIRTH  THE VIBRATION ENERGY YOU CAME INTO THE WORLD WITH  AND WHEN DEALING WITH THE HERE AND NOW  THE NAME YOU GO BY .THE NAME PEOPLE KNOW YOU BY ...

Thanks for the reply, but what is confusing me is my half knowledge. I have just read one book years ago- Cheiro's numerology, and that reminds me of incompatibility of two numbers- 8 and 9, my birthdate gives no. 9 on adding the 2 digit date, but when I total the date, month and year of my birth, which is the fake one I have always used in all my documents, totals up to 8.
The real one totals up to 7. I am just confused is this causing all the stress in my life?should I change my DOB everywhere legally?shd I change my name?or the way I spell it? Also my child's DOB totals upto 13 (totaling the date, month and year), my parents' house nos., my bro's DOB, and much more. If something good happens it totaks upto 13, and the end of it will always bad. Nothing works out......I don't want my child to suffer like I did and do, I am going insane.

the date of birth can not be altered ,your name can,  yes if you are using a different date this is not good , first it reflects a denial of  birth energy    second the 8 and 9 are at odds with each other    .one must come to terms with energy they came into the world with  ....second the 13 is known as a karmic  debt  which does not mean that impending doom is always the outcome but is  a warning  

13 Hard work and slow progress, this Karmic Debt number is difficult but rewarding when enough effort is applied. Grounded and down-to-earth. Reliable, trustworthy, but sometimes rigid and lacking a sense of humor.  

Those with the 13 Karmic Debt will work very hard to accomplish any task. Obstacles stand in their way, and must be overcome time and again. One may often feel burdened and frustrated by the seeming futility of one's efforts there may be a desire to surrender to the difficulties and simply give up on the goal, believing it was impossible to attain in the first place. Some with the 13 Karmic Debt fall to laziness and negativity. But efforts are not futile, and success is well within reach. One simply must work hard, and persevere in order to reach the goal. Many highly successful people in all walks of life, including business, art, and athletics, have a 13 Karmic Debt.

The key to succeeding wit the 13 is focus. Very often, people with the 13 Karmic Debt do not concentrate or direct their energies in one specific direction, or on a single task, but scatter their energies over many projects and jobs, none of which amount to very much. A temptation wit the 13 is to take shortcuts for quick success. Too often, that easy success doesn't come, causing regret and the desire to give up. The result is a poor self-image, and the belief that one is incapable of amounting to very much.

In order to focus, you must maintain order in your life. Order is essential to success. You must maintain a schedule, keep appointments, and follow through. Keep your environment neat and under control, and never procrastinate. If you sustain a steady and consistent effort, you will realize much reward.

also it is the number of death in the tarot

Any help will be appreciated, if anyone can see the horoscopes and numbers and suggest me something.

The stress is my child's bad days, they all fall on the no. 4 or 8, and that is making me more paranoid, because I don't want her to suffer and go through all that stress I go everyday.

omg, can you believe , my land line no. gives total 4, mobile no. gives 8, i had a chance to change it but I didn't.........destined to be with these nos.???

I got married in the year that totals upto 4, the month was 4th, date totals upto 8..............my marriage has always been through rough and tough times. On the verge of break always.

My husband's date comes out to be 9, totaling all comes out to be 9 as well, now as mine becomes 8 (with the fake year I use). Is this the reason of non-compatibility??

I am in a deep shyte, plz someone suggest me something, I will try my best to get the year changed as well, in case it can be done somehow.

I don't use a fake date of birth but the year, and I am not responsible for it, my parents did it when they first got me to the school...:(:(. I am desperately seeking help.

Thanks.