My mother was born on 8 April 1958 and I was born 26 May 1985. 58, 85. I was born when she was 27 (which is obviously a multiple of 9) and both our Kua numbers are 9. Our ages always have something connecting them, whether it 14 & 41 or (our ages now) 25 & 52. Either they mirror each other or they both add up to the same number.

Now what I was wondering is this - can anyone tell me whether this means something *at all* or am I just being extremely paranoid?

I'm not trying to attritube anything special to myself OR my mother but I just found it interesting and wondered whether anyone knows anything I do not (which is very likely)

It's an interesting thought, I don't think you have anything to be paranoid about. The only real "link" I would think of is that from this you would have some time of guidance and understanding between one another.  So consider it a blessing. ;)

I believe you could have the upper hand here if you both learned to work together.

one cycle that both of you do share  it deals with  later part of life basically  after 50    so in a some way mother can be a mentor,or a pattern  one of many  that daughter can learn from  .


A time of hard work and all the rewards it can bring. This is a period in which you are concerned chiefly with the practical things of life: work and career, sound family and a solid community. You are not given to flights of fancy or idealism, but want to place your life on sound financial footing. You can be overly concerned with details and thus can find yourself in ruts that will have to be broken free of. Find work you love and do it to your heart's content, but do not neglect the rest of your humanity, or that of others close to you. This is a time requiring discipline, order, and self-motivation. Work is the order of the day. But through these characteristics, you will be seen as the foundation of your family, job, and even community.

the other thing that comes to my attention   is the age comparison mentioned in your post , even though not personal vibration they can on a deeper level maybe show some conflict between the relationship  "differences"

14/41

14:" A wild streak. Need for change and adventure can destroy carefully planned progress. Lack of focus and commitment. This Karmic Debt number can get you in trouble. Guard against self-indulgence.

41:It is capable of directing energies to many different projects successfully. It is selfish, has a lack of humor, and is sometimes criminal.

25/52

25:It is spiritual leadership. It likes group endeavors. It can be too serious. It has great difficulty sharing feelings.

52:See 25. It is more sensitive, intuitive, and creative.  

14: - These people will learn how strong they are, which will be useful for the constant changes and
unpredictable events in life. They will travel a lot and meet new people. This number points also to
various dangers.

41 - These people think with their heart, not their head. They are skillful and creative, communicative
and successful regarding their profession.

25 - This is the symbol of difficult life full of hard work and suffering in youth. Later, however,
happiness and material security are possible.

52 - These people will possibly be betrayed by a woman. Accidents and failures are possible.

 Wow...thank you so much for both your comments, they were truly awesome and very interesting to read :D