This is a LITTLE bit off of numerology. But it's kind of like the movie the number '23'. My LP is 5 and I know my destiny etc, etc number. But the number 3 and more strongly the number 9 are everywhere in my life. Let me explain.
I was born on 09.19.1993 at 9.30 in the morning. morning before i was born my heartbeat stopped at 9 at night. i have 19 letters in my name, first letter of my name is the 19th letter of the alphabet. my middle name first initial 3rd letter of the alphabet. my last name 13th letter of the alphabet. i always seemed to be number or grouped as '9' or '3'. i graduated elementary in 2007 and im going to be graduating high school in 2011. 2+0+0+7 = 9. 2-0-11=-9. I just seem very attached to those numbers, i know they don't really have to do with numerology, but would anyone want to explain if this is just a coincidence or do i really have a strong connection with the number 9 and/or 3

just a coincidence or do i really have a strong connection with the number 9 and/or 3  .... nothing happens by coincidence   i assure you that there is a underlying meaning ...

the numbers are present inwith your chart at some level  as are all numbers from 1 to 9  and your conscious awaressness of the three and nine  
has special meaning to you at some level  and make up part of who you are ..

the three pattern    : emergence - manifestation
the 3 as a temporary vibration  : growth travel entertainment

the nine   pattern   :  universality - forgiveness    

9 as a temporary vibration   :  changes endings charity inspiration  events take place quickly at this time , with many stops and starts.

the nine in your case is much more than a temporary energy so we need to look deeper into how it might be effecting you  

09.19.1993 at 9.30    the date of birth


nine = ambition ,high standards , concern for human welfare  

your date of birth contains four nines  four x nine  are constantly at war with themselves and their surrounding.

nothing ever seems to come up to their expectations and this makes them withdrawn and unstable.

affirmations for 9

i find myself in all people and embrace the good which i know is there .

i face endings with equanimity as i know every ending represents a new beginning .

i become part of something greater than myself without losing my individuality.

Thank you so much! That helped me out with understanding. It's amazed me cause I had a lot of those traits that you mentioned. Thanks!