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Posts: 8526 · Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 6:24 pm

BALANCE NUMBERS

People experience different internal responses to life's challenges. Some withdraw from difficult situations to think them through; others withdraw from their emotions, to try and keep themselves from feeling anything. Some explode with emotions, but allow the explosion to pass quickly. Others linger with their feelings, holding on to them well past the time they should have let them go.

Very often, these are conditioned or emotional responses that emerge without thought or analysis. Maturity and self-development help us to learn new and more effective methods of handling our world and the problems we confront. Your Balance number provides you with the guidance on how best to deal with difficult or threatening situations.

About your Balance Number:
Your Balance number can present you with the basic guidance on how best to deal with difficult, complicated, stressful or daunting circumstances. When under stress, the clues provided by your Balance number may help you to find a way to find peace of mind. Of course, we all experience different reactions to our personal challenges. Utilizing your inner strength and the guidance provided by this number could provide a course toward stabilization. Everyone will not benefit from the same tools, or techniques. Some people will find meditation calming, while others may need to "blow off steam" in the gym.

Although your personal Balance number represents your ability to remain relaxed and balanced it is not usually regarded as a major aspect in your life. Its power comes into your life when you "let things go" and feel "off kilter" or when you experience times of heavy stress, conflict, or turmoil. During these times, if you do not have an outlet for your worries/stress then you may find yourself struggling to achieve a sense of calm. Paying attention to the information that your balance number can provide (as well as your other numbers) may allow you to begin to stabilize yourself.

How to find it:
Your Balance number is found by adding the numerical value of the initials of your full name at birth. If you were born John Thomas Doe, then you would analyze the following letters: J, T, and D.

The number/letter chart below can be used for hand calculations:

A B C D E F G H I
J K L M N O P Q R
S T U V W X Y Z
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

J = 1
T = 2
D = 4

1 + 2 + 4 = 7

John has a Balance number of 7. This means that John may enjoy time by himself, but he may need to find a way to better connect with his family and friends during times of stress as he may often try to solve all his difficulties alone or perhaps simply try to wait out his problems.

Your Balance Number is 1
Keywords: Sharing, Community, Friendship, Perspectives, Connections
Helpful activities: Talking with others, Volunteering
When your balance number is 1, you can benefit most by bringing others into your life to help support you. Connecting with others can be very rewarding. Often, your first response to a dilemma would be to solve it alone. However, friends and family members may be able to offer a unique perspective on your situation.

Your Balance Number is 2
Keywords: Calm, Focused, Diplomacy, Trust, Honesty, Stability
Helpful activities: Listening, Meditating, Listening to Music
When your balance number is 2, you can benefit most by learning to loosen up and keeping a cool head, adapt, share and trust others. Accepting the opinions and views of others can allow you to be seen as flexible, agreeable, diplomatic and easy going. At times your stubborn attitude may make you appear rigid, emotional and unyielding.

However, giving in to others does not mean that you have to be self-sacrificing. Be calm and remember the phrase: "Don't make a mountain out of a molehill". Also learn to balance persistence, tolerance, and dedication.

As you develop diplomatic skills you can achieve your goals more easily. You will also be able to keep the peace within most situations. Many may look to you for support and strength when it seems like a situation will have no solution.

Your Balance Number is 3
Keywords: Fun, Humor, Wit, Sharing, Assistance, Optimism
Helpful Activities: Laughter, Exercise, Talking
When your balance number is 3 you can benefit most by leaning on others when it seems like your work load, or stress level, is too high. Do not be afraid to ask others for help.

At times your tendency to become too emotionally involved to the answer you want, or desperately need, may cause you to overlook possibilities that may benefit the all parties involved or the community at large.

You may need to take some time and just have fun. It may be that you are letting the little things drag you down. Your good humor, charm, and optimism can inspire others to help you out of almost any situation that you find yourself in. Although you must be careful not to overly rely on the accomplishments of others.

Your Balance Number is 4
Keywords: Optimism, Structure, Stability, Dedication, Justice
Helpful Activities: Yoga, Meditation, Games
When your balance number is 4 you can benefit most by learning how to be less rigid and controlling. Early on, you may have learned that discipline and structure are important. However, you may at times forget that having fun can be important to your life as well. Try to develop a more optimistic and open minded attitude toward problems, especially those that have emotional undertones. Let others have a voice, and learn when to be more social and less demanding.

You can also benefit by finding ways to release your resentment or anger. You may have a finely honed sense of right and wrong, which can trigger your passion. At times you may want to quickly punish those who seem to do wrong, and reward those who seem to do right. Learn that the world is not black and white, and you can develop insight, leadership, impartiality and compassion.

Your Balance Number is 5
Keywords: Focus, Insight, Knowledge, Clarity, Simple, Practical
Helpful Activities: Walking, Running, Rest, Relaxation
When your balance number is 5, you can benefit most by learning how to be present, taking one day at a time, and breaking down your problems in manageable tasks. Asking others for help may be a good thing to do as well. Meditation, and support groups may help you to stay focused.

At times you may over-rely on food, alcohol, television, or drugs as a means of escape. Try to remain in the present. Find ways conscious and mindful ways to deal with your problems.

You have a highly creative and intuitive mind. Some of your issues may be attributed to ignoring your abilities and being pulled into a dry, dull and listless life. Do not allow yourself to be painted into a corner. Do not allow yourself to be boxed in. Reach out, create, invent, and contribute to the world. You can be at your best when you are utilizing your creative and intuitive abilities.

Your Balance Number is 6
Keywords: Compassion, Friendship, Dedication, Love, Inspiration
Helpful activities: Education, Relaxing, Doing something for yourself, Volunteering
When your balance number is 6 you can benefit most by learning to trust your instincts. At times, you may overly rely on others for support. If you can learn to tap into your management skills then you can be successful in most situations. Others will come to you to solve difficult problems.

At times you may rather enjoy yourself than handle your obligations and responsibilities. Early on, friends and family members may help you out of difficult situations as your charm; general good nature and passion can inspire them. However they can eventually grow to resent the fact that they are doing your work, and fighting your battles for you, especially if they are constantly called upon for assistance.

Your Balance Number is 7
Keywords: Courage, Determination, Power, Victory, Leadership, Knowledge
Helpful activities: Reading, Lectures, Strength training, Volunteering, Action
When your balance number is 7, you can benefit most by learning how to be more active, demanding, present, courageous, and determined. Too often, you may retreat inward during times of stress. Instead learn that you are a capable person and that many of the tools you need are inside. Your unique perspectives can allow you to see problems in unique ways. Your ideas can help others to learn about the world in a whole new way.

Find methods to learn more about yourself and your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual needs. Too often you may worry about the needs of friends/family while forgetting about your own. Learn to take action and deal with obstacles in your life. Although your life may seem unique, others have had experiences similar to your own. Allow them to help you. Conflict is not your enemy.

Your Balance Number is 8
Keywords: Leadership, Power, Control, Victory, Strength, Stamina, Inspire
Helpful activities: Therapy, Exercise

When your balance number is 8, you can benefit most by learning leadership and communication skills. You can have a natural leader like presence that draws others to you for guidance and decisions. At times you can be forceful and demanding. Because of your powerful nature you will also benefit by learning about honesty, power and responsibility as you may have considerable responsibilities.

If you are controlling and manipulative then you may end up in hot water at times. Best results in your life can be achieved by utilizing your inner strength, courage, stamina and creativity. Also, learn to let others have a voice.

Your Balance Number is 9
Keywords: Giving, Leading, Direct, Insight, Illuminate, Community, Guide
Helpful activities: Meditation, Volunteering
When your balance number is 9 you can benefit most by breaking away from your inner world and connecting with the people in your life. Remember the phrase: "It is better to give that receive." Because of your problem solving abilities others may be drawn to you. Offering practical advice can be a way to connect with others and it well help you to understand them. You have keen insights that can inspire and aid others. Your help can allow you to identify with the needs of the people in your life, which may be far different than your own. Sharing your gifts can help others to see you in a new light

Posts: 178 · Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 4:01 am

As I have had an issue come up today, I was thinking about the Balance numbers. Looking back though old posts, I found the topic, and thought I'd bring it back around, with some more info that I have found on the subject.

Quote:

People experience different internal responses to life's challenges. Some withdraw from difficult situations to think them through; others withdraw from their emotions, to try and keep themselves from feeling anything. Some explode with emotions, but allow the explosion to pass quickly. Others linger with their feelings, holding on to them well past the time they should have let them go.

Very often, these are conditioned or emotional responses that emerge without thought or analysis. Maturity and self-development help us to learn new and more effective methods of handling our world and the problems we confront. Your Balance number provides you with the guidance on how best to deal with difficult or threatening situations.

1 Balance
Draw strength from yourself but be more willing to share your troubles with friends and family. You can be a loner in the face of problems. This can isolate you during troubled times. Be open to the advice of others. This will widen your perspective on the problem and give you new information on which to base your approach.

Strength, creativity, and courage are the arms with which you will win the war.

2 Balance
Use tact and diplomacy. Be less emotional. Be courageous in your approach to the solution you seek, rather than backing away from problem because you fear confrontation. Work hard to diffuse tension; your innate talent is to find a mutually satisfying solution to all. You are willing to compromise.

Be more optimistic and lighthearted. Try not to blow problems out of proportion. You are overly sensitive and have to work to be more balanced.

Balance and harmony are there for you the minute you apply yourself to any problem. You can be the peacemaker.

3 Balance
Be more lighthearted and optimistic in your approach to problems. Try to work with others toward a mutually satisfying solution. Use your considerable charm to influence the situation.

You can be extremely emotional when faced with a problem. Try to control this tendency; you need a degree of objectivity. You may become too personally attached to the solution you seek, thus failing to see that the outcome can be beneficial to all concerned.

4 Balance
Try to have perspective and a more lighthearted attitude toward emotionally-charged issues. Control your anger. Discipline is your strength.

Also, look at the larger picture and the need for compromise. Your sense of justice must be elevated to another level where such virtues as forgiveness, compassion, and deep understanding are the guiding lights. A practical approach to these ideals is to try to put yourself in the shoes of the person with whom you are in conflict. There are always more angles to a problem than you tend to acknowledge.

5 Balance
Try to focus on your problem, rather than avoiding it. You may try to avoid the issue by indulging your senses to keep from feeling the pain of a conflict. Be careful not to escape into food, alcohol, and drugs.

You are capable of finding a highly-creative solution to any situation the minute you put your mind to it. The answer lies well within your grasp.

6 Balance
Your strength lies with understanding people and the underlying conditions of a conflict. But you can rely too heavily on friends and family to provide you solace instead of handling the situation directly and responsibly. You may be too likely to retreat to the good feelings provided by people not involved in your situation.

Responsibility is the issue here. You helped create the situation in the first place, and are an essential part of the solution. Accept your role.

7 Balance
You retreat into some safe haven within yourself and hope you will not have to deal with the issue at hand. Yet, the clarity and analytical abilities of your mind are sufficient to provide you with insight into the problem, and a clear path to its solution.

You have to work at confronting yourself and the issues you face unemotionally and calmly. You can be engulfed in the emotional aspects of the issue, which clouds your mind and prevents you from using your clarity to find an answer. Get past the emotion and you will find an answer.

8 Balance
Use your considerable power in a balanced way. You may use power in a manipulative way, rather than confront people on principle.

Use your power in a higher way, namely, by accepting personal responsibility for the issue and its solution. You have enormous creativity and the leadership to find an answer to almost any problem.

Try not to force your own solution upon groups, but include their concerns and ideas in the larger solution that you can bring about. Learn to use power for the good of all.

9 Balance
You will find your solutions by empathizing with the concerns of others. You have a gift for understanding a wide variety of people and seeing the broader picture. But too often you retreat to aloofness, a kind of Ivory Tower, in which you regard yourself as an aristocrat, above the masses. You will find your solutions by coming down to the practical reality where people live. It is in giving that you will receive.

Posts: 8526 · Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 5:44 am

thanks Nimisha,
that was a cool post
mine is 2... and at the moment i am pretty unstable:((..balance is something i need badly!

Posts: 6486 · Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 2:06 pm

Does only the Initials of ur Birth name matter, not the present name u are using. My Birht name gives me 6 & a bit iof what is given here is true about me, but my present name gives me 10 = 1, & i have some of it, too, but both are kinda contrasting to each other, so which one is more applicable.

Posts: 178 · Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 2:14 pm

From everything I've studied, the birth name has the biggest impact. Names you pick up later in life have a lesser impact, though it probably increases the longer you use the name (but you will always have had the birth name the longest, you see...)