A friend recently did a numerology (is it reading?) for me and a girl that i am interested in, and she told me this:
Your life path indicates a career decision that is very good,
Her Destiny number is the same but not her career. Her career is
Only a 4, like if you chose to be an accountant she may be a manager
Or maybe something in that financial range. Not rock bottom but not
A 10/1 either. She would rather be a stay at home mom while any
Children are very young.
Your personalities are very compatible as both are 10/1's.
She has an older soul number indicating a closer spiritual walk than yours.
Hers is a 9 yours is a 5.  She will be good for you spiritually.
Your maturity is a 7 hers is a 5. She will help you to laugh without a big
intelligence gap.

Now, i don't understand numerology that well, so i have virtually no clue what she is talking about. Can anybody please help elaborate a little more? I don't need another reading, just explanation. Thank you.

The confusion is understandable  .And i believe another reading would help clear the air . Have you spoke to you friend about this.  a little knowledge of what numerology is and how it works  would also bring you insight  .in  a reading certain numbers are assigned to different aspects of your being and the path in which you walk  . these numbers have  certain character traits .that are used to define you  .our personal numbers are found within are name and date of birth.  with the date of birth its a matter of adding and reducing  in most cases .with names the letters must be changed to numbers .

a true reading will give you all your personal numbers and how they effect you . when looking to if two people are compatible  we look at each persons numbers and see how they relate to one another

i feel, if a reading was been  done that you should not feel like you are in the dark.for numerology is for opening our minds to insights about who and what we are .so i have taken a moment to send you the following





Dominant Impression.
This section describes the first and dominant impression the name "Crounsa810"
conjures up in most people.

The name "Crounsa810" reflects drive, a pioneering spirit, leadership,
independence and originality.  The energy behind this name is strong and forceful
and promotes an unconventional, innovative, and decisive approach.  Highly
focused and self-reliant, the name "Crounsa810" carries with it an unmistakable
“can do” attitude.  It reflects confidence, energy, strength and perseverance.  
There is a definite sense of danger and risk-taking as well.
The name "Crounsa810" does not inspire patience and sensitivity, and does not
promote cooperation or a diplomatic approach to problem solving.  Think of this
name as a masculine, aggressive, creative force.

Most positive characteristics: Strength, originality, courage, imagination, creativity,
confidence.  Good for competitive, high-risk ventures.
Most negative characteristics: Pride, intolerance, excessive aggressiveness.  Not
good for people-oriented ventures or healing, counseling and retail businesses.


Vowel Vibration  
 
The Vowel Vibration of a name enhances or decreases the impact of the
Dominant Impression, and sometimes adds a completely different flavor.  Read
about the Vowel Vibration with the Dominant Impression in mind.

The vowels in "Crounsa810" enhance its sense of independence, strength, drive
and determination.  It certainly adds horsepower to the Dominant Impression.
The Vowel Vibration makes the name feel more masculine and aggressive.  It
also conveys intelligence, innovation, inventiveness, leadership, courage,
adventurism, and a taste for the unconventional.  At the same time, the vowels
make "Crounsa810" seem somewhat harsh, abrupt, impatient, confrontational,
and hard-headed.


Base Vibration  
 
The Base Vibration is subtler than the Vowel Vibration, but should be considered
equally important.


The Base Vibration in "Crounsa810" reflects nobility and idealism.  It reaches
greatness through humility and wealth through sacrifice.  It represents universal
justice and balance.  It inspires people to give of themselves, to devote their
energies selflessly, and to love all people of all walks of life.  The base vibrations
in "Crounsa810" reflect the true potential of mankind.

the Base Vibration in "Crounsa810" also reflects great artistry, especially in
dancing, acting, and other performing arts.  There is elegance, grace, and
charisma within these base vibrations.
At the same time, the influence of the base vibrations in "Crounsa810" can be
impractical, misguided, and annoyingly self-righteous.  There is a need for
common sense and a more down-to-earth approach.



  The Life Path number gives us a broad outline of the opportunities, challenges,
and lessons we will encounter in this lifetime. Your Life path is the road you are
traveling. It reveals the opportunities and challenges you will face in life. Your Life
Path number is the single most important information available in your Personality
Chart!

Your Life Path is 10/1  
 
   Crounsa810, you are a born leader. You insist on your right to make up your
own mind; you demand freedom of thought and action. You have drive and
determination. You don't let anything or anyone stand in your way once you are
committed to your goal.    You assume the responsibility to be the protector and
provider for those you love. You demand respect and attention and become
irritated and even domineering when important things do not go your way.
   You need to feel in command of important undertakings, and resist supportive
roles. You seek the forefront and the limelight.
   You are exceptionally creative and original and possess a touch of the unusual.
Your approach to problems is unique and you have the courage to wander from
the beaten path. You can be impatient with your shortcomings and those of
others.
   You are very concerned with your status and foster the appearance of success
and self-satisfaction. The need to appear well off propels you to strive for growth,
success and the finer things of life.
   Crounsa810, you should watch out for selfishness, conceit and the
over-concern with appearance. You must guard against overzealous behavior,
anger and aggressiveness. If these qualities are not brought under control you
could become excessively domineering, vindictive and even violent. You perform
best when you are left to your own devices. Ideally you should own your own



business and be your own boss. Hold fast to your life's dream and work with the
determination you possess to realize it. You can become overly stressed by your
driven nature. Be careful about the food you eat and maintain an exercise
program you enjoy. Competition sports are often a healthy outlet for a person with
your drive, particularly sports involving running and swimming. Don't let pride and
overconfidence be your masters. Remember, your talents and abilities are a gift
from a higher source, which should promote gratitude and humility, rather than
pride and conceit.
   More often than not a person with a 1 Life Path will achieve much in life as long
as the drive, creativity, originality and pioneering spirit are fully employed!

BIRTHDAY  
 
   The day you were born bears great significance in understanding who you are
and where your talents lie.  The day of birth indicates some special talent you
possess.  It is a gift to you that will help you along your Life's Path.  Your day of
birth is one of your four core numbers -- the Life Path, Expression, and Heart’s
Desire being the other three.  It is the least significant of the four core numbers,
but perhaps the most finite, in that it reveals a specific ability you possess in a
marked degree.

Your Birthday is 10  
 
   Crounsa810, you are highly ambitious and yearn for independence.  You
possess leadership abilities, and a strong drive for success.  Your test in life is to
live according to your dream -- that is, to have the courage and the stamina to
overcome obstacles and win the independence you so deeply want.
   You possess a sharp mind and fine analytical skills.  You have excellent
managerial skills.  You plan well and can organize people to carry out your plan.
   You are often frustrated by routine activities.  You can become dull and even
depressed if you are bound too tightly to the smaller details of life.
   In order to rescue yourself from such a fate, it will be necessary to take prudent
risks.  Crounsa810, you must learn to assert yourself.  You are a pioneer at heart.  
You must live up to such a charge.
   You can be stubborn and rigid when it comes to ideas that you feel strongly
about.  Yet, you are a loyal and devoted friend and can be demonstrative of your
affections.
   Conversely, you are highly competitive and can suffer from jealousy when it
comes to the success of others, especially colleagues or friends.
   By using the determination and creativity you possess, you can achieve much
success.

Your personalities are very compatible as both are 10/1's.
she got this number from your names  both being 1s i wonder if you dont bump heads at times.  


She has an older soul number indicating a closer spiritual walk than yours.
Hers is a 9 yours is a 5.  She will be good for you spiritually.
these also came from your names     the vowels in the your name added and reduced  example 1 +9+7 =17 / 1+7 =8

Your maturity is a 7 hers is a 5. She will help you to laugh without a big
intelligence gap.  

these are a combination of life path number,and expression number  life path coming from the date of birth ,expression number coming from the total of all the letters changed to numbers and added together and reduced

life path + expression = maturity number, which will come into play around the age 30