Yeah 3 out of 4, isn't so bad lol. I must of been really bad.  I think we choose out these lessons for ourselves before we come here. Sometimes I think... what was I thinking? But it really isn't so bad anymore, like you said, knowing more about myself helps me understand and try to do things differently. I try to remain teachable, and taking life one day at a time makes a lot of sense.  It's having a spiritual base and learning about myself that has has helped me to not look so much at the negative.  
Maybe if i can "pay off" these debts I won't need to reincarnate anymore.

thats my plan lol

My karmic number  is a  13/4 not  sure  what  thats supposed to mean, but i don't  see  13  as a  fateful number,  i  could be  wrong

13/4
Hard work and slow progress, this Karmic Debt number is difficult but rewarding when enough effort is applied. Grounded and down-to-earth. Reliable, trustworthy, but sometimes rigid and lacking a sense of humor.

Those with the 13 Karmic Debt will work very hard to accomplish any task. Obstacles stand in their way, and must be overcome time and again. One may often feel burdened and frustrated by the seeming futility of one's efforts there may be a desire to surrender to the difficulties and simply give up on the goal, believing it was impossible to attain in the first place. Some with the 13 Karmic Debt fall to laziness and negativity. But efforts are not futile, and success is well within reach. One simply must work hard, and persevere in order to reach the goal. Many highly successful people in all walks of life, including business, art, and athletics, have a 13 Karmic Debt.

The key to succeeding wit the 13 is focus. Very often, people with the 13 Karmic Debt do not concentrate or direct their energies in one specific direction, or on a single task, but scatter their energies over many projects and jobs, none of which amount to very much. A temptation wit the 13 is to take shortcuts for quick success. Too often, that easy success doesn't come, causing regret and the desire to give up. The result is a poor self-image, and the belief that one is incapable of amounting to very much.

In order to focus, you must maintain order in your life. Order is essential to success. You must maintain a schedule, keep appointments, and follow through. Keep your environment neat and under control, and never procrastinate. If you sustain a steady and consistent effort, you will realize much reward.

I guess having these numbers can only be fateful if we allow them to be. Yesterday I was feeling really bogged down but a change in perspective helps. Probably too...the combinations of the numbers we have is very important.