Hi Michelle, you have the fadic numbers correct and really, for the life path it doesn't matter what calculation you do, but to look for the lesson its done differently. Either way the fadic number is always the same. His lifepath would actually be 11. Now, there are other things to consider while examining how the numbers would affect a relationship. Looking at the lifepath alone is like looking at someone's Sun sign alone. Its easy to say that a Leo and Aries would get along great because they are both fire signs but there is so much more to consider than to base it on that. With some people that could be the ONLY thing that would work between them, and everything else could be horrible. Or you could have a Taurus getting along just fine with a Leo, even though their Sun signs are not compatable. It all depends on a lot of things. Numerologically you have not only the lifepath but the birthday vibration, the expression, heart's desire and all of that. Don't get all worked up when I tell you that 5 and 11 are discordant. Because naturally they are but that means nothing. The 5 and 9 are also a discordant couple. My lifepath is 5 and my husband's is 9. I am also a Leo and he is a Scorpio and they square one another. Sure we have our moments, who doesn't but we love eachother and we will be married for 6 years on Monday. But you have a 3 birthday, and he has a birthday of 11 (the vibration) and those are harmonius. Funny enough, so do I am my husband. If your expression, heart's desire, maturity and all of that are harmonious or neutral, then.....nothing to worry about. And even if someone came to me and asked if they were doomed because all of their numbers were discordant! No one is doomed! But there are things to work on! And if you really want it to work, it will, despite discordant numbers between you. Hope this helps.
Miriam
PS I will try to get to your other stuff soon. I have been under the weather
