if  you  think  about  it  im  beein  unusially  open  here  i  mean  after  my  past  experiences  (those  that  dont  know  one  place  banned  me  fer  stuff  i  didnt  an  HAVENT  done  another  just  cause  i  refused  ta  apologise  fer  tellin  the  truth  then  diodnt  even  bother  to  ask  why  just  banned  me  then  theres  the  place  with  the  powerhungary  admin)  so  yea  then  theres  the  whole  i  choose  biyu  over  jodeecmptrwiz  or  a  rme  (rogue  marie  elisa)  account  so  yea

whatcha  makin??  i  LOVE  cookin

biyu,

 Hey hon, you said you want to be able to lower around your friends, thats what my walls allow me to do so I'm sure with practice you could learn to do it too.
The way I formed my walls allows me to pretty much open a door when ever I wish to do so. You having a bracelet that protects you is unfamiliar to me so I'm not really sure on how would be the best way to go about using it for protection, you might see if Nyte knows. However if you think it might help to hear how I made and use my walls just let me know.

 You also asked about feeling actual pain being an extreme form of Empathy... well to be quite honest with you I had never really thought about whether or not the two are one in the same. I am Empathic and able to feel ones physical pain so I just assumed that they were. I guess I need to do some researching on that, for the both of us. When I do get the information I will be sure to let you know.

 I also seen that you mentioned to Nyte that you're not big on physical contact... well thats actually very common for Empath's with out good or strong enough walls. The touching of another person allows direct access and can be Extremely overwhelming so again I say, and I can't stress this enough, you should either start seeing about building yourself some walls or try to make the shields from your bracelet stronger. It with help with that, and it gets easier.

 I'm glad I was able to help and I hope this does too,
                      Mystikal

(so  glad  i  have  some  bbc  memorised)



fun  it  seems  at  times  my  friends  are  few  i  can  REALLY  trust  so  yea  chances  are  they  allready  know  about  my  gifts  (one  of  them  ive  gone  shrink  an  that  quite  abit  lately)



the  bracelet  is  something  i  manefested  afew  years  ago  i  wanted  my  own  witchblade  so  i  got  one  actually  im  kinda  tryin  ta  figure  the  best  ways  to  "tewak"  it  so  it  works  better  actually  i  should  get  on  drawin  it  up  an  yea  id  like  ta  hear  might  give  me  ideals  fer  my  bracelet  (was  thinkin  of  havin  it  send  out  a  daimond  like  skin  just  under  the  metal  it  seems  ta  like  but  dont  know  plus  theres  the  whole  will  the  daimond  like  coating  hurt  me)



id  love  ta  hear  an  id  think  its  atleast  relatated  as  both  cases  someone  outside  is  feeling  something  they  often  well  scientists  would  say  they  shouldnt  be  feeling  (yea  i  have  abit  if  sceptic  in  me  its  from  a  great  fall  one  of  the  few  reminders  of  it  i  kinda  want  anythin  ta  do  with)  but  they  often  can  an  do  feel  so  yea



well  im  more  thinkin  it  hasw  more  ta  do  with  marie  an  how  i  got  thru  middle  school  in  tact  (bascally  i  created  this  outher  personiality  was  me  but  was  srtonger  an  that  an  actually  much  that  i  wanted  was  from  rogue  one  of  the  x-men  in  the  movies  her  first  name  is  marie  so  yea  anytime  i  fely  i  needed  ta  use  somethin  that  i  put  into  her  i  just  called  her  foreward  eventually  she  just  encorperated  into  who  i  am  yea  i  am  aware  most  will  think  im  nuts  but  i  was  like  10-14  ish  at  the  time  i  had  thought  it  was  a  good  sulution--oh  near  the  end  of  that  is  when  i  manefested  the  bracelet  so  yea)  i  dont  think  i  got  any  unusial  rush  of  emotions  last  time  i  touched  someone  but  im  willin  ta  cheak  soon  enough  an  i  think  next  week  or  maby  later  when  i  get  time  or  feel  i  have  some  to  myself  (i  have  good  ears  ill  snap  outta  whatever  im  dooin  when  i  hear  somethin  id  rather  not)


sofar  no  issues  yet  kudos  (would  like  ta  actualloy  give  ya  one  but  hey  works  eh??)

oh  yall  may  notice  me  blendin  different  terms  (eh  a  second  ago  yall  jus  now)  do  me  a  favor??  dont  freak  itys  just  ive  done  abit  of  travelin  an  some  things  are  fun  ta  stuck  with

Hey hon
   sorry Ive not been on lately...  been really busy.  Anyways, I wanted to comment first on you saying your  friends are few that you trust... Thats actually a big problem with Empaths is if you are not careful you will slowly become bitter towards  others as you get older. I'll give you an example... Empathy I just not long ago found out runs  in my family (mostly through  females, although my son also proves more and more everyday his empathic abilities). Anyways, my grandmother is a very mean and even  at times spiteful woman and as my mother explained to me more about my inherited abilities she also told me that because my grandmother never had someone to teach her how to build walls to protect herself from all the overwhelming invasion of 'emotional attacks' for lack of betters words, she kept putting herself out there to help some people who very much didn't deserve it so she kept getting crapped on by people she thought where friends.
**point being... you have to be very careful of friends taking advantage of you, because of you being an Empath you feel like you need to help people radiating their need for help for various reasons,  some not always worth helping ** Just  a  note of caution for you and again I'll say it walls walls walls!!!

 Ok you also said you were interested in hearing how I manifested my walls/shields...  First I started by sitting alone so I could concentrate and I pictured myself laying bricks one by one. It  took some time but to this day its my strongest wall I have and use. Then, I practiced taking it up and down till I learned how to make like a door in my wall so that I could like, I don't know, a flashlight where I could put a more direct beam on what/who I wanted to sense. And I'm still working on learning to mirror emotions, thats used more for like reflecting negative emotions back to people who are purposely trying to make others around them miserable in hopes that they will
learn not to be so... hateful I guess.

  Now I did do some research on whether or not its common for empaths to feel physical pain and there are about 30% of empaths that can in fact feel others' physical pain. If you want to do some research yourself you can just Google it, thats what I did.

  So now to your  whole manifesting like another personality... it's not crazy.  Young children with abilities try to find ways to protect their selves from the hardships of coping with what they're going through, specially when they have no one to help them learn how to use them.

  I do hope you figure out a  way to make your bracelet stronger and everything you need it to be to help you safe guard yourself.

 Thanks for the kudos dear!! Much appreciated!!

                      Best of luck, love, and light,
                                                             Mystikal

Walls:  The biggest problem with walls is they hold other out, but they also hold you in.  All of life is an energy - this energy is about seeking to resonate with everyone - not just a chosen few.  

I would guess it was not about the lack of walls that made your grandmother bitter - it was more to do with not sharing herself.  You see, when we wall ourselves in we don't know 'how' to share and be a part of the life energy all around us.

All energy is on a flow (flow spirit flow) and the more we flow with the life experiences, the less we can be hurt or disappointed in life's experiences.  So what we need is not so much walls to keep others out (and ourselves locked in) but a form of protection that allows the free flow of energies without the pains and discomforts of others' emotions to upset our own.  May I offer:

Visualize a bubble (similar to one blown from the soap bubble pipe of a child) complete with the rainbow patch - rainbows are such wonderful symbols of connection, bridges, communication, joining and come complete with a pot of gold (prosperity) at the end.  See this bubble expand to encompass your whole body.  Soap bubbles can be seen as both strong and weak - they will not happen with a big wind - only a whisper over the soap - but strong enough to float in the winds.  It will act as a filter for all negativity from within or without.  This allows the free flow of energies without wearing what is not your own to correct or change as you see fit.

If we took the time it takes to build walls - brick by brick - and applied it to spirituality, we may find ourselves with more experiences that open doors to knowledge than we have encountered so far in life.  This whole thread is about mediumship development.  While I consider a free flow of information to be educational, I must admit to some truths and not bridging their message.  Wall are just not been seen as a spiritual approach by any of the spirituality threads I have encountered.