Hello, I just have a question maybe you could answer. Some times I can tell if someone is upset,angry,sad, aor just feeling down. Most of the time it is like I take on their mood. I have used and ouija board, but first always say no evil may enter here and I always have a bible near me. When I try to ontact one spirit, it moves real slow, so I close my eyes and block everything out and I began to get dizzy, and start feeling really tired like I am drained. Any thoughts?

A couple of things going on here - feeling others' emotions is empathy.  It is a sensing of what others are thinking, feeling, or knowing.  It can and should be controlled by using a protection exercise that filters all the negativity around you in your environment.  This also allows that you will be available on your own terms.  The first lesson in development is - TAKE CHARGE!

The ouija board has not been a very a good source for development purposes.  The consensus is - it draws negativity and negative, earth bound spirit.  For this reason, you are just not reaching high enough to address your own best good with caring, loving guides and loved ones.

Higher level spirit work allows the spirit guide to re-energize you before, during and after all spirit contact.  You will never be drained of your own energies - physical, mental, emotional, etc.  The opposite is true at the level of spirit you are reaching the ouija.  

The lesson is - reach higher.  How?  With exercises that take the mind, governing body and spirit to higher realms for caring, loving guidance.

The only reason I got the ouija board was to try to contact Crystal Marler, she has been missing for 9 years, and we have heard she had been murdered. I have been helping with the case,just from information from people. So, I thought if I got an ouija board I could contact her, first saying no evil spirits may be here. I close my eyes to consentrate and I get really dizzy and sometimes sick to my stomache. This even happens when I just close my eyes and concentrate on her, not even around the board. I didn't know her it has always bothered me for some reason. I deff know when someone is bothered by something or upset. I just wish I was psychic..lol.. it would be so much easier.

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The only reason I got the ouija board was to try to contact Crystal Marler, she has been missing for 9 years, and we have heard she had been murdered. I have been helping with the case,just from information from people. So, I thought if I got an ouija board I could contact her, first saying no evil spirits may be here. I close my eyes to consentrate and I get really dizzy and sometimes sick to my stomache. This even happens when I just close my eyes and concentrate on her, not even around the board. I didn't know her it has always bothered me for some reason. I deff know when someone is bothered by something or upset. I just wish I was psychic..lol.. it would be so much easier.

                   Thank you

Just a thought that perhaps before you start to concentrate on her, you let her know to try to hold back her feeling and just let her thoughts through, or to try to sort through her feelings and let something else through.

The other thought that I had is that maybe it is too intense for you to sort through and that you need someone else there to help anchor you, so you are not taking it all into your self and becoming over loaded. I have a friend who is an empath, but is still learning how to slowly open up. When she wants to work on it she often asks me to come over, so that if it becomes too much she can hold on to me and not get lost in the translation of the feelings. I mean lets face some people are just much more emotional than others. I try to keep tabs on mine when I am around her and she has often told me that when we first met she was shocked by the intensity of me, and now she can't figure out how I am so empty around her. Control is a big issue when dealing with empathy. Emotions are something that not everyone has a hold of. Intense emotions are often, love, fear, panic, and anger. Maybe a different direction of asking questions will help you get the link without the jumble.

I hope that this is some help. Just things that we have picked up in trial and error. Good luck!!