Well I honestly couldn't take it to encourage them to parade anymore... it is bad enough as it is.... But if they seem to linger I try to acknowledge them and hope that helps them to keep going where ever they need to go. I haven't really had any stick around... not the shadow people... some of the others do as they are lonely, so I talk if I can then encourage them to find peace and move on to the next place they need to go. I have been told that I am very warm and that it is like coming home to someone, often they just are lonely and I know that feeling well, so maybe that is why I can't seem to help but be inviting.... anyways Thanx for the advice...

Hi Nyte,

MangoMom ( from this site ) gave me some helpful advice. She told me to refer them to  my main spirit guide and he/she would lead them to where they need to go. I did as she said and haven't seen them around at all.

I will have to try that then... *smile* although I  think I am more in a place of transitioning, and that is why the activity in my house... My nephew when he comes over (not yet 2 yrs) often goes to a that wall and just sits and plays with them. They almost always stop to play with him, he is very bright... Not strong yet, but the potential is there and his mom is always telling me that she wants him to learn all that he can.  But I will keep that advice in mind next time I am actively conversing with them.

Are you communicating at the shadow people level?  Or would it serve you to reach to a spiritual height?

*blush* I was actually being sarcastic... Sorry They don't talk to me, they just move by.... *smiles nervously* I forget that you all don't know me yet... I feel like I know you all.... (Mostly because I have read a lot of the posts...) I don't get two way communication often, and when I do it is mostly well wishes or the you have no idea how nice it is to talk to someone... kind of thing....

The shadow people, are just kind of there in the back ground, but the movements catch my attention... they don't go away when I look at them, they just go on with what they were doing... More like when you are out shopping or something and you happen to lock eyes with a stranger... It feels like that... When I am alone I often say Hello out loud, but they don't respond... (Me and Joe were talking in PM too)

Sorry I took so long to respond, hope that helps