I feel as though when I'm asleep something is making my mind open to something or someone.

I often hear people calling my name or I hear bells or the door knock and i jump and sit up in bed suddenly.  My boyfriend never hears these noises.  I go through stages where my dreams seem to mix into reality and it's usually in the morning when my boyfriend leaves early for work.

He leaves and I hear the door shut and then, while im asleep i am aware of voices and running in the house.  I try to wake myself up but often I'm paralysed.  It always happens just after my boyfriend leaves.  I often feel as though something is in our room at night.

Other things that happen when i'm awake are only small- like i will think of a friend or a phrase will come into my head and then i will get a text msg along those lines out of nowhere.  It happens most with my family and close friends.

My dad is very ill and i often get blood noses.. i will ring him and i will have had the blood nose at the same time of night and woken up just like he has in his home 3 1/2 hours from me.  It will happen maybe once every 2 months that i get blood nose and its the exact same time and day he had one.  Sometimes i feel taken over by extreme tiredness or depression and i feel as though maybe im taking on the feelings of others in my family?

Also my grandmother died before i met her and my grandpa recently died.  Sometimes the tv goes off and i immediately have their names in my head.  Is this my imagination?

One more thing- I have a memory from when i was really little floating around the light in my room (i had previously fainted).. also memories of seeing lizard that were see through crawling on walls that weren't really there...

Lots to say sorry- havn't been on this site before or ever talked about these things to anyone other than my mum.

As so many of these things began as a child it would be hard to separate imagination from spirit input.  The reason - children are connected to their source (spirit) until it is conditioned out of them in our material vibration (around 9-11)   They are certainly valid and interesting experiences.  They are a forerunner to current events.

Check out what may be adult happenings and see what answers can be found.  As conversations about such things are new, read all the lesson notes to get a handle on some of your own experiences for questions to form.

It appear to me that you are extremely sensative. I understand that the happenings around you can be quite disturbing if you do not know what is happening. Many other people have experienced these sort of things. Most think they are losing their minds, going crazy, etc. but this is not the case. These people usually turn out to be psychics or mediums. I am not by any means saying this is what is happening to you, but it is worth considering.

My son had similar experiences. When he reached the age of 19 he began hearing people calling his name, sensing energies in his bedroom, hearing noises that could not be explained, etc. I took him to the Sunday Services at our local Spiritualist Church. This showed him that what he was experiencing was nothing to be afraid of, in fact it was quite natural. After a few weeks he asked to join the development group. That was where he learned to control and understand what was happening. He is now a Spirituaist Medium and Healer.


The only advice I can give you is for you to contact your local Spiritualist Church (if you do not know where your local Spritualist Church is you can find it by typing 'SNU' in the search bar on Google). They will be able to answer all your questions as well as give help and advice. They will be able to teach you how to develope your abilites, or close them down for you (whichever you prefer).

Until then, analyse what is happening. Do not accept everything as being paranornal activity. Try to rule out the obvious; people passing outside, neighbours, etc.

Excellent advice!  Depending upon your location - there are national bodies in the US, Canada, England.  For further information in your own area, let us know.