I'm not sure why but in the last week I have had two very indepth readings on mediumship.

the first was for a woman whom lost two sons and a step daughter, They were all killed at the young tender age of 18 and under.  I have spent the last two weeks with spirits wihtin my home they are not malevolent or angry they are just kinda sitting in a queue waiting for their turn kind of thing.  Once i got through the first reading for mum the boys stayed which is unusual.  Usually they would leave but this made me wonder if they were trapped but a day later I had an ex girlfriend of one ask for a reading so once I had finished with hers they left.  I was very glad to becuase I get so tired with spirit around.  I have htis depth of fatigue that seems never ending I protect etc and do all the right things but they seem to tire me out.

So once they left I bounced back a bit the next day then found myslef drawn to a cemetery and wlaking around.  I dont normally do this when in pain and on my crutches so this was a big thing for me to follo directions to a grave from spirit.  It turned out i have read for his ex girlfriend and she has cancelled her appointment four days earlier due to sickness adn he had messages for his dad.  Long stroy short him mum came to see me adn we exchanged messages and I brought through her son.  
I cried so much whilst she cired I felt so much and yes i suppose my guard wa down a little.  
When she left due to the high acuracy and happiness she had I was on a high....well I feel like a truck has hit me now.  any suggestions on balancing the emtotions or the fatigue.

Also does anyone else get a spirit first hang around then knows wihtin a few dyas they will get a call for a reading only for it to be for their loved one.  Its happening more and more the spirit then the phonecall it used to be the other way....am I on speed dial up there do you think,....lol....

I gotta take a nap and ground, any thoughts would be great...I'm high yet flat......

These boys have me tired....hehe...but in a good way but atleast my house is nice and quiet again for the first time in to weeks and hopefully they (all spirits) will let me sleep tonight too.

so back to my original question does anyone have times of no mediusmhip then all of a sudden its one after the other of all these spirits could it be astrologically related with the red moon coming up or am i just receiving them differently at different times?

Hope i made sense?

Contact with the deceased is definitely mediumship!  Wake up your guides and ask them what is the problem?  What are you doing wrong?  

The fact is...when we work with spirit influence they re-energize us (even a buzz) they do not diminish our energies.  Using solid protection and replenishing often would be a good start.  But most assuredly contact your guides and wake them up to your fatigue.  You may find there is something else going on?

I contend that our work is 4-way - you ONLY attune to your own spirit guide who brings spirit entities to communicate (through them).  At the same time, you are connected to the client/sitter.  If you are taking on all these stray energies, you really need to refresh all grounding and protection and keep yourself more dispassionate.  You are empathisizing why too much and it is causing fatigue.  

It would appear you are attuning in the spirit realms to any and all who come.  That is not the best connection to make.  There is bound to be some energies that are not compatible...that is why you have spirit guides...and attune to ONLY that source.

I think someone wrote your name and number on the proverbial spirit bathroom wall.

Ok, maybe not such a good joke. Perhaps this is YOUR calling. You will be led to those who you need to help, rather than you calling spirit to you because of the beckon will of those on this plane. I don't know if that makes sense. In other words, there are things people want, and there are things people need. Perhaps you are moving from the things people want to the things people need. If you feel drained, make it be known - and take your time. Spirit will be there tomorrow or the next day if it is something that is truly  needed. Some have the view that protecting and shielding blocks all negative feelings and emotions, but to me feeling the grief of the spirit or of the person receiving the message is not always a bad thing. There is understanding, and then there is truly understanding? That's my take.

Anyhow, I wish you well.

spirit have free will the same as use, i have had spirit come through, hang around and wait only to get an unexpected visitor and it is them that they have a message for. i think it works both ways people need to contact spirits and sometimes spirit need to contact use
my emotions are not so bad now i just ask spirit to step back or i wont be able to help them if the emotions are from people i have to breath deep and slow to take control, i also feel great after contact with spirit but suffer fatigue the next day i had just taken this as been normal

Normal is as you make it.