Yes, by all means feel the emotions of the spirit entity...but do not allow these emotions to be yours and cause any fatigue to your physical body.  They are a representation for you to understand spirit.  But do not be so connected you are diminished in your work by these emotions.

I was standing at the front of a group demonstrating one day and all of a sudden I was standing on one leg.  The spirit entity was impressing me with the removal of a leg.  I was able to dismiss this as soon as the message is given and they were not that close that I had to go around with only one leg indefinitely.

Fatigue of the physical comes to us from the material vibrations.  And we can be in a place occasionally when we just don't feel like spirit work while we live our material life.  Taking care of ourselves is paramount for spirit work to be at its maximum.

That means if you are diminished in energy in any way, shape or form it is time to find out why from spirit.  The first step is backing off and doing your work through your guide, not taking on all and sundry spirit entities.

We do not call up the dead.  The spirit that comes to us for our clients is that which is available - not always the client's first choice.  This is designed and works through the guides.  Any spirit coming in ahead of time is not the best choice of message - that is designed by the guide.

When we are in the 4-way as described, the spirit can and does replenish any and all energies used to do spirit work.  There is never a need to be de-energized through this work.  You physical/material energies are for use in your life and its challenges.

The fact is...if we insist on opening to any and all comers, there would never be enough white light or protection to keep you from harm.  The spirit connection best made is to your guide ONLY.  It makes for a wonderful partnership and they can help keep you protected so much better.  No fatigue.  No energy drains.

spiritalk
When i said people need to get in touch with spirit i didn't mean they could choose who came through i know that's not possible i was talking about proof of life after death
you also said-- Any spirit coming in ahead of time is not the best choice of message - that is designed by the guide.
i have not had a lot of experiences in this although my post was to high light that spirit some times need to give a message and know where to go to give their message

Hi spiritalk,

Looking back after a couple of days now I do know that my fatigue after was due to the emoitional side of things, plus I'm on soem heavier drugs for my A.S.  It is very hard to sit accross from another mother and hear her talk about the viewing the autopsy and the way her son smiled even in death.  She broke my heart and I cried with her.  I'm a mum too and I couldnt help it.  I apologised but she was so grateful that I was crying with her she thought she would be meeting a person whom saw death as something that wasnt to be cried about and that somehow I would be inhuman to grief so it actually helped her knowing I felt her also.

I felt them all the deceased son, the mother in front of me the father sitting at home grieveing alone and the guides.  I had so much energy the reading could have gone on for years but once it ended I was still high it was 3 hours later i hit the ground with a thud!  I know how to disassociate I worked on Ambulances and with grieving couples etc for years.  Sometimes you can do it easily other times it catches you and holds you so close you get mixed up with it all.

It seems the last couple of weeks my mediumship skills are taking off again.  I seem to go through stages where there is nothing and I like it advancing so I guess I  am letting my guides bring some people through.  This boy I had read for his ex on many occasions so I had already gotten to know him through her so my guides will let him through anytime they know I dont mind.  I guess the other two boys the murdered ones as I offered the reading to their mum in the first place so I opened myself up to them.

my guides are my bouncers but they are also my teachers so I trust in their doing and how things came to pass.  It turns out me being led to this boys grave on this particular day and time was all intricately weaved.  There was a reason it had to be this time it was the exact time his mother was receiving notice of terrible news and the fall out the rest of the afternoon that came with it so her son became more insistent.  He's harmless and gorgeous.  I asked her for photos and he is like he is in the photos only bigger kinda more glowing his red hair is more firey and rich.

I feel that mediumship is the way my life is leading and to be honest I want it too but I do worry if getting emotionally attached to my clients is healthy maybe it can be good to still think of how they are doing etc a few days later and to wish them well?  Am I supposed to forget them completeley once they leave the room?  i'm not sure exactty what yet is the healthiest way for me to handle these types of readings but I guess over time I will know how to deal with the after effects.

I do although tell the spirits that chat to quieten down etc and I ask my guides for free time etc and they do listen but there are occasions when I guess my guides know its an emergency and I have them set up to intrude upon my life  if this is urgent or an emergency so to speak so if a family or spirit is in need or difficult circumstances I want to help, so I suppose they are all along doing their job so to speak.  Its not like working on an ambulance we get the call over the radio that its a code one (here in aus thats for emergencies) then we can react so I  place faith in my guides that they know when it is important for me to work and they bring it together

Thankyou all for your responses it was very helpful to read through them all.

F:  I feel that mediumship is the way my life is leading and to be honest I want it too but I do worry if getting emotionally attached to my clients is healthy maybe it can be good to still think of how they are doing etc a few days later and to wish them well?  Am I supposed to forget them completeley once they leave the room?  i'm not sure exactty what yet is the healthiest way for me to handle these types of readings but I guess over time I will know how to deal with the after effects.


J:  The issues we are dealing with here arose in another place - my circle - just last night!  Isn't the universe wonderful!  

My advice to her is very much the same as to you - spirit may impress some conditions on the body from time to time.  Do not wear them, nor carry them in your totality - body, mind, spirit.  It is important to know the information that personally, it is not important for you to deal with the fallout of those emotions.  On of the things I do in dismissing some of the physical symptoms is - snap my fingers!  Take this away and snap.

All mediums are very sensitive people.  Hence the reason for certain protections and maybe even some personal rules are necessary to keep us healthy and functioning on the material level as well.  

There is something called 'dispassionate' in nature.  You may appear to some as uncaring, but the actual results will be a healthy you to carry on as well as leaving the grieving to the loved one.  To be dispassionate is to not to be uncaring.  It is to be passionate about yourself and others on a level of spirit, without physical interference.  Delicate balance, at best!

When we have a crash - even 3 hours later - we have not completely protected our physical body.  The empathy and attention to your client was commendable - but hard on you physically.  How often could you manage to be like that - before you affected your own health?