How do you deal with people who want commit suicide?
i dont know y such thoughts have been coming to my mind;)))
is it just a way of escaping frm ur responisbilities?

I think our minds go on over drive... People or aka family, seem to think we are rocks, We can do everything... I think talking about it helps.. A person who is true about your feelings, how you feel inside, Understanding some-what, what your going through... You have to realize, it's not always about your self.. There are others involved who love you...

Like my self. I try to find more good then bad in my life... I deal with the bad by talking to a really close friend.. They seem to get my crap together after I had a ( WHAT ABOUT ME thing ) LOL..... Or I do web graphics based upon how I feel.... My son wakes me up 100% about everything around me... I don't tell him what's wrong deep inside what I think.. He seems to know when mom is sad..  He cheers me up in ways no other could.. A simple smile will wake me to reality....

Swetha, I don't know what's wrong and I wont ask... Just know things do get better in time... I know~!!

My friend just sent me this.. I told you, I have handful of true friends.. This is one of them.. they know my moods miles away.. I'm sharing this with you~!!
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When things get tough....ask yourself....Is this just sand?
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>            A MAYONNAISE JAR AND 2 CUPS OF COFFEE
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>            When things in your life seem almost too much to
>            handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough,
>            remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.
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>            A professor stood before his philosophy class and had
>            some items in front of him.
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>            When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very
>            large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill
>            it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the
>            jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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>            The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and
>            poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
>            The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the
>            golf balls. He then asked the students again if the
>            jar was full they agreed it was.
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>            The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured
>            it into the jar . Of course, the sand filled up
>            everything else. He asked once more if the jar was
>            full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
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>            The professor then produced two cups of coffee from
>            under the table and poured the entire contents into
>            the jar, effectively filling the empty space between
>            the sand. The students laughed.
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>            "Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
>            "I want you to recognize that this jar represents
>             your life. The golf balls are the important things-
>            your God, family, your children, your health, your
>            friends, and your favorite passions--things that if
>            everything else was lost and only they remained your
>            life would still be full.
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>            The pebbles are the other things that matter like your
>            job, your house, and your car.
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>            The sand is everything else -- the small stuff.
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>            If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued,
>            "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
>            The same goes f or life. If you spend all your time
>           and energy on the small stuff, you will never have
>            room for the things that are important to you.
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>            Pay attention to the things that are critical to your
>            happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get
>            medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner.
>            Play another 18. There will always be time to clean
>            the house and fix the disposal."
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>            Take care of the golf balls first -- the things that
>            really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just
>            sand."
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>            One of the students raised her hand and inquired what
>            the coffee represented.
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>            The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just
>            goes to show you that no matter how full your life may
>            seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of
>            coffee with a friend."
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>            Please share this with someone you care about.
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>            I JUST DID

that was simply lovely. thanks Nicole.. and thanks for not asking. i guess i shall talk about it when i amready:)
but it just feels gud to b on Mystic Board:)
i sometimes think life is so simple yet so complex:)

You are right on both parts.. It is simple & Complex...
You got to remember, we are all going through changes in our lives, from being a baby, child, teen, a grown up.. We are learning everyday.. How to cope, except, love, forgive...

For me~!! In my 20's It was really hard, Being a wife, a mother, a daughter. Back then my mother had brain surge on her, she had an ( AVM ) Size of a lemon tumer... From that day back in 1993, it's a been a struggle.. I'm the one who told the doc's to do what ever it took to keep her alive~! My 2 brothers was not there for me and my husband when this was all going on...I was prego with my son also.. From this day, they still wont visit her in the nursing home... She lost her friends.. She was always there for them.. Now they all turned there backs on her.... I know she thinks I did to by moving.. But I'm still there, I go and see her and call.. Pardon me, She's going through hell. And I blame myself for what she goes through each and everyday..... So in a since I do know how you feel inside..... And I thank my Lord, for keeping me strong and reminding me, how wonderful my family is... There is nothing wrong about feeling pity for your self at times.. We get like that at times... And we need ppl to help us get through that self pity....

Sorry so long... I hope you woke up today feeling refreshed..  

Gives  ((( Swetha ))) a hug..