Hi Cari,
As you know, I'm JUST A BEGINNER, but I'll take a crack..

Thanks for explaining the positions! Since the question still didn't feel very specific - these are just the feelings I had.
One of the first things I found interesting about the spread was the progression of "energy" - cups to swords to wands to pentacles with a little "Major Arcana" sprinkled in!

Makes a good recipe!
Like you - I also had the feeling that things were really lovely at the beginning of the relationship. Feels like they were "basking in love" and "poof" someone started "thinking" and out came the swords.

- disappointments, sadness, disillusionment and then stalemate and more stalemate, stopped talking. communicating, showing true feelings.. 2 and 3 of Swords are reversed BUT I don't have the feeling that the issues they represent are really RESOLVED - I don't feel any "clearing the air" or "forgiveness" . (Maybe things just got "shoved under the carpet" for the sake of peace or to save face?")
Of course - nobody wants to remain in this "icky" state so desire to move forward - here comes the Knight of Wands. Since Knights are about movement and in this case we have a Wand - it feels like your querent definitely seeks "change" and has some "new idea" or plan for doing so. BUT as the Knight - it's like HIS HORSE is pointing forward, but HE'S still looking backward - this makes the "new idea" feel more like a "scheme or plot" if you understand what I mean - is there a desire for "revenge" somewhere?
For me, the "deception" you mentioned as having taken place in the past appears with the reversed Magician. The "standard words" like "cunning and trickery" came up but my feeling is more like "using ones gifts for the wrong purposes" . It's easy to manipulate or pull the wool over the eyes of those who love us.
Taking this approach COULD lead to what the reversed 5 of Pentacles is suggesting: gain, but through "negative means" , material instability (not a "happy home"/money problems), harming the things we value, making our foundations "unsettled". In any case - there's no real "satisfaction" to be gained here - certainly no love either.
That's it Cari - hope everything is clear. Again - I'm just learning so I'd appreciate your feedback as well. I'm sure that some of our classmates will also respond - we've got some "real ACES" in this class - so reading their posts will be fun for BOTH of us!! If I have time, I'll look at the other two readings you've done as well.
Until then, wishing you lots of love and light "back"l!
Weezer
