Well my appologies for confusing at least half of my respondants.

I do tend to speak off key to others, I blame My ADHD for that.

To clarify, I was hoping there were others more obssessed than I, with insight as matched with the obsseesion, enough to bestow me with some clairvoyance I might use to my advantage in finding "the perfect girl" for me at least.

By inner, outter and secretive signs, I was refering to some in depth chinese astrology.
Because I was born in 1984, I am a wood rat. Rat is my outter sign, and would is my affixed element.

Because I was born in between the hours of 7 and 9 in the morning, my secretive sign is the dragon.

And because I was born on december 25, my inner sign is the ox.

I mentioned all that info in hopes that it might catch the eye of a "hardcore" respondant. I have failed, but that's alright.
I thank you all for your warm greetings. I do hope to enjoy myself here.
You all seem very nice and helpful, so I thank you.

I'm just a bit preoccupied by my aforementioned dilemma is all.