hi guys,
how r u all doing? i havent logged on for ages
have been so deeply buried with work.... just cudnt find the time.
see a lot of new members.... welcome to all of u.
hope to be online frm now on.

i had a very vague question nagging me since morning... but just dont seem to remember it anymore:)
anyways have a great time guys

But had one more question:
Suppose ur friend comes up with a plan to do something. u r not for it. but go along with it when ur friend insists on it.
its like u did not come up with the idea, resisted it but what the hell went along with it just for the heck of it, as u were sure that it was just for fun.
but it results in a disaster!

my question is:

when the time come for u to face things:
1.wud u hold ur friend completely responsible for it as u were against it frm the beginning?
2. wud u feel partly guilty but make urself believe that u r not to blame, so u start blaming him?
3. wud u feel guilty that u were partly responsible too even though u had not initiated it?

just wanted to know how people felt about this:)
coolguy

hi coolguy,
good to have u back:)
i go with point no3. so what if it wasnt my idea to begin with? agreed i never knew where its going to lead to...but then i went along of my own accord. i always had the right to say no.
swetha

hello guys,
the rest of u , where have u disappered??? do let me know about how u feel about this .

# 3, I knew from the start it was wrong thats why I didn't want to go in the first place but I didn't listen to my instincts so I am as much to blame

sounds like u found urself in a mess ..

well i would have to say if u do something rather it is ur idea or not ..u did it ..its called responsibility for your actions ..there is always away out
Mom called I have to go home for dinner ...I have a date... I am expected here ...OR just to say NO NO NO I WONT DO IT ...

I know somethings are hard to say no to ..that is called growing up ..sometimes that growing up thing really sucks but we move on we move forward

oh and Welcome back