hi guys,
thanks for ur replies.
what i am trying to say is u start doing something with ur frnd as a joke, but it ends in something that may not be "socially unacceptable", then what wud u do?
like mayb u never initiated this "socially unacceptable" thing, but ur frnd did and u stopped it after sometime when u felt that it was wrong, when time comes,
1.will u stand up and b responsible for it
2.or say i am not responsible as i did not start it, i got dragged into it without my knowledge.
3. make up stories in ur mind convincing urself that u r completely innocent and that u ahve been wronged.

i personally feel that if u r not forced into something, then u cannot b dragged into it without ur assent.

does it really matter at the end of the? who is responsble and who is not? the whole story simply boils down to the acceptance of responsibilty. and depending on who, what, when, where and why... the responsiblity lies with both parties. and if none of them want to take the blame for it or blame each other... then well god help them. it can only get worse.

hi Abhishek,
i agree with what u r saying...and in other words i am trying to say the same without being biased. responsibilty for ur actions matters a great deal..and who is responsible too. becoz u have in question other people too.. whose hearts u have broken, whom u have hurt and whose trust u have lost in the process.
i dont know if i am making sense.
someone has hurt me and i seem to b shattered frm within. but i guess i have to learn to cope with life and carry on.
thanks guys

hi coolguy.
i wud say mayb u had not expected it to turn out the way it did, but even then, u like it or not..u r responsible:(