Hello fellow adventurers!
this life is indeed an adventure full of awesome experiences.

i honestly don't see any disunity in the genders,  both are part of nature and required for wholeness,
each unique with its gifts to life. An interesting thing I read was in a book from David Deida, where here he mentions the 'quality' of energy from men and women, as being important, not their actual gender as such.

ie their sexual polarity, a woman may manifest potent male energy in a business meeting and then require the joys of feminine solace in the evening from her male partner.

conversely the same can be said of men, who enjoy the luscious embrace of the feminine divine, while riding up and down on the curves of the sea. - the surfer, and may yet manifest potent male energy when he is with his lady in passion.