Hi

I am extremely worried now about what is happening in my life for the last so many years.When  People approach me for marriage if I show reluctance and don't care for them they shower all the love and full sincerity, nothing stops them for caring me but once I start trusting someone seeing their behavior and decide to marry them  they suddenly change the attitude and something happen out of thin air and the circumstances change to 360 degrees. Even if there is no reason for breakup even then the  marriage could not occur, what to do with this situation can anyone tell me?

that's basic human behavior. and more often, they are made subconsciously. think of it this way, if you want to buy a new car, you save up, cough up the budget, and tighten your belt--because you want to have it. once you bought the car and you have been using it for quite some time, you regard it as one of the things you already own, given that it is already your property, so your view about it changes, you no longer budget too much, etc. does that make sense to you?

anyway, that's why real love is supposed to be grounded in friendship. you have to know the person first before you decide to spend your whole life with him. don't be too impulsive.