dude, one thing iv learnt you've gotta put your self out there man. thats the best advice i can give, sometimes you will get hurt and sometimes you wont, its better to have loved and been loved than not to have experienced it at all like some unfortunate people(for them i feel extremely sorry for).

i can relate on some sort of level tho, not to drop my problems on to you because i dont expect a respond just that i hope you can learn from my mistakes.

i am a young dude not bad looking at all(not that i am up my own ass) but one thing i have come to notice is that, over the last year iv had alot of fun with women, but iv not been the best of person towards them at times specially when its come down to a break up, i seem to always want them to be more hurt than i am for e.g someone tring to break up with me giving them a week to think things over and going out and doing things with as many girls as possible and then throwing it back in her face.

the point i am trying to put across here, is that i am in some sort of karma payback point for my misrespect of women cause. Now in the time where i am lonely and want a girlfriend it is far from possible, i keep tring and tring and keep getting fucked around etc etc not that i completely deserve it because i am quite a nice, romantic guy among other things iv just used it to take advantage and its biting me in the ass. so whatever you do, when its comes down to meeting a nice girl (not some skanky girl thats gunna mess you around although thats very hard to find these days no offence to women)
: put yourself out there find a nice girl and act on it because not everthing in life can just drop into your lap no matter how much a good person you are.
: threat her nice
: be yourself
: dont ^%(* her around because no deserves that
: and never try and get the last laugh cause it will come back for you as it has for me, like i said i am not a bad guy iv just made some misstakes and its come back to teach me a lesson so learn from my misstake dont do it cause karma will come for you.

hope what i said helps

Hi Forrest, I'm really surprised by this post because it sounds just like something I would write. I thought I was the only loner scrounging around here. For me it's really difficult to find people who think similarly or who kind of vibe on my same frequency. It really forces you to be absolutely independent. The only thing that really keeps me on my path is remembering why I choose to remain so solitary....It's just not worth risking becoming affected by common ideology. Sometimes it feels like a curse...knowing too much for my own good.