We have been seeing each other for several years now, and recently it was called quits, I havent moved on. He has decided to go into another relationship, for friendship or companship I am not sure. but this is  something I thought would ever happen.  He and are are supposed to be together,, taking care of each other,, walking though fire together. I love and miss him very much. My soul is lonely without his in my life.

I can truly understand how you feel.  I myself was in the exact same situation recently.  So {{Hugs}}.

However, it IS time to move on.  Mourn, grieve, cry, and then take your personal power back.  You have given it up to this situation, and have caused the inability to move on.  This allows you to still be in a relationship with him, in some fashion...even tho it isn't what he wants.  Harsh words?  Yes....but necessary.  Take your power back.  Find the answers and lessons you have learned in this situation and move forward.  All the answers are about YOU when you find them..nothing about HIM...the words he / him/ we/ us don't apply in the lessons you find.  The words "I, me, my" do.  

Give up the perception that you/we are / were supposed to be together.  Change your perception to something positive..Example below, but customize it to YOU.  Time to stop making YOUR life about 'we/him/us".

"I am a strong, confident and capable woman..and I am OK being alone.  I enjoy my company and am never lonely.  I know how to take care of myself..I enjoy my company...I am grateful for good and loyal friends, family, and hobbies I enjoy".

This also gives space and distance to allow the universe to work for you in your favor...He may return..he may not..but live your life for you, in the now, current and present moment.  See what wonderful surprises are instore and waiting for you once you allow, and open yourself up to receiving them.  Right now..you're blocking that.

Best Wishes

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wow,, thank you so much,, that is what I needed to hear/read. I am confident women and I will live life as such.. thank you so very much for those powerful statements I will not forget them.  love to you

You're welcome.  Keep me posted.

I have talked to him, and he does or cant continue the relationship with me, he is in another one. he has decided that we should remain friends. and that I should find me another one to share with my life with. I have told him that I did alot of things wrong, and that I have chosen right now not to be in another relationship. I will go it alone for the time being. So that is where it stands right now. life goes on right,, me myself and I. thank you for all your kind words and help. I am deeply thankful.