Hello everybody I just feel like I need a huuuuge hug right now because the man I am with seems to be cheating on me. I don't have proof, but I just.... *know*. You know how that is.

He has stopped being as communicative with me, seems to always be thinking of something (or someone?) else.... won't be very affectionate with me or physical with me at all anymore. I always ask him what's wrong and he says, "Nothing. I'm just tired." He did complain of being tired a lot even when I didn't ask what's wrong, but still.

I've been asking him to tell his ex to stop her contact with him, she keeps trying to talk to him....but he fought me so much on this and I ended up backing down. Why would he be so intent on NOT telling her to leave him alone? ...Unless he was wanting to keep that door open for something.

Well he had already lied about having been out with her, using the lame excuse that it was because his sister had invited her without him knowing.  (His sister and ex are friends.) I conveniently couldn't get ahold of him that night until his "family" had taken him home. Same thing the next night. It was a simple thing to call me, but he didn't do it. Sketchy....

And she left him a cryptic message on a social networking site we both share... and that's when I had asked him to stop talking to her and we had that argument. Well today, after he had alrady fought me so much about not talking to her, I see that he had left her a comment about her picture in Feb. (we were still together) saying "I love this picture...."


It's like who does that? Who has that weird kind of contact with their ex if nothing is going on?? I hate to get caught up in website drama..... but it looks fishy. What do I do.... what do I even begin to say to him...... he is apparently intent on keeping SOMEthing from me.....


I need a huge hug. And thank you all soo so much for listening. You're all so sweet and I love this board a lot.

Sending you a Positive and healing energy hug

Here is a hug, that you find your strength, to do what is best for you.

Thank you both so much! :D

=/ Just dump him. Why waste time in such a fickle and time wasting relationship? And social networking sites are stupid.