thanks for the hugs, i solved the problem today

Should you quit your second job? Unfortunately, no one can tell you what to decide, but I can be helpful in giving you some ideas in how to make the decision. 1. sit down with a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle. 2 name one side pros and the other side cons. 3 list all the pros as to why you wanted the job, why you think you should stay etc., and on the other side list all the cons. NOTE: you can bounce back and forth as they come to mind. Then: Leave it. Don't think about it,  walk away from it, sleep on it. look at it the next day etc. Are these the same pros and cons. What weighs out. There  There is your decision. Hope this helps. Good Luck!