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Posts: 1201 · Posted: Tue Mar 03, 2009 2:52 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug....much love and huggies

Posts: 12 · Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:06 pm

Eesh, relationship problems. Love sometimes gets us down, and I've been there. The truth is that he might not be mature enough to see what a wonderful person you are. There's nothing wrong with you; instead, you should stop and breathe, realize that he unfortunately he might not be interested. If he can't appreciate you, maybe that's for the best. It's never a really easy decision, and we tend to not make them anyways. All in all, I've got to agree with everyone else. Love yourself and have faith in yourself, take comfort with your friends, and if a boy likes you he'll make that abundantly clear. Much love and hugs. <3

Posts: 141 · Posted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 9:04 am

A day seems like a very long time at your age.
Emotions are volatile too and can peak fast, because they have been tempered with time.

You are young, life is calling out to you..... whether it is a temporary separation or otherwise, do not sit in a corner and moan.
After all, Tomorrow is another day...................

Perhaps you will not appreciate this advice now, but if you remember, please look back at this dialoge about 5 years from now and you'll see what I want to say!

Posts: 5 · Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 4:39 am

I know exactly what you're going through. Love is a strong emotion. But the fact is, you need to learn to love yourself before your can truly love anyone else. If you learn to love yourself first, you will be open to love in life.

HUGS!

Posts: 133 · Posted: Fri Apr 10, 2009 5:24 am

sadoangel wrote:

I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, and I know I shouldn't be. Our relationship ended because he cheated on me, and certainly not for the first time. Well, that's not entirely fair, a smaller problem we had that I was beginning to lose my mind... so, he said that if I got better, we could get back together.

I've gotten better, and he broke up with the rebound girlfriend, but he still won't come back, and he says it's because he doesn't want me, and he wants to be single. Yet, he has a crush on another girl at his school. He claims he doesn't want to pursue, he just wants to deal with it until it goes away, but who is he kidding?

What's so wrong with me that he doesn't want me? I'm smart, funny, kind, and loyal. I have all of these good qualities, but yet he has a crush on a girl who is avoiding him and treats him differently in front of her friends. Great, I'm unwanted while Miss Two-Face is "totally hot".

I've been where you are before. It took me years to get past that. There is nothing wrong with you. The relationship just isn't meant to be. You can't force a relationship where it doesn't exist. I learned that the hard way. You could miss out on a great guy if you're too focused on your ex. If you focus on him too much you will become obsessive and possibly start to develop the behavior of a stalker.

If he cheated on you in the past, why would you want him back? No one deserves to be treated like that in a relationship.

Some guys tend to want what they can't have, girls do it too. Just focus on having fun and enjoying life and before you know it the right guy will come along. One that won't cheat, and will appreciate who you are.