You and I are the same age....I refuse to be old....I refer to myself as wise, I suggest you do the same before someone catches on that I am full of it. javascript:emoticon('

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Anyway back to your hug...God made you perfect just the way you are, unfortunately you were not made for him/her? that dumped you. Take some time to think about who you want to be and what you want in this life. I mean really think about it. Then do one thing towards this change.
It won't take away your pain but it will give you a break from thinking about it all the time.
Goddess Bless!