Thaylove,

I agree with kgirlsmomma. The universe works out exactly as its supposed to. I was watching a movie a couple of nights ago and there was a line in it that I liked very much: "God [you could substitute universe or whatever you believe in] never puts you through more than you can bare." And it's true. It really is.

I went through a breakup several months ago that I'm STILL not over yet. It's hard. But one thing I've learned through all of this? You can't wait around on someone forever -- even if they are your soul mate. And that's not to say go date around, because you may not be ready yet. Instead, do whatever makes you happy. If you and he are going to get back together, you might as well pass the time in between as pleasantly as you can. It'll make you feel much better, because no guy --  no matter how much you love them and they love you -- is worth feeling bad over. After all, at the end of the day, if they ever loved you in the first place, they wouldn't want you to hurt one second because of them.

Tons of hugs!

-PrettySiren