Thanks for giving me so much support everyone all of your advice is helping me tremendously. I'm so over this situation it's like I get sick and tired having to think about it and talk about it already. If I weren't here I wouldn't even give him a second thought. I've been ignoring him and it has made him quite upset :D which doesn't bother me. I really made an effort to make things nice and calm while we go our seperate ways but now I see he has emotional issues and I just have to avoid him. Warding off my bitterness towards him is kind of draining me so I make an effort to not be around as much as possible. Thanks again for listening to me complain my rear off...sometimes there is no better solution for me than to talk things to death although it annoys everyone.
hugs and kisses to everyone
