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Posts: 129 · Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 7:03 pm

Hi,
Our favorite topic ha! Well I'm needin' a hug too. I have been married for
almost 15 years. I am just not feeling the same in the relationship anymore.
I have tried so hard to make things good again, but it just isn't there anymore. Maybe its midlife crisis. I can't help wanting to be with someone
else now. We have just grown apart, he has become involved in things I don't enjoy. At first I cared that he did them without me, now I don't even
mind. I just want my own things to do and my own friends.
I'm sad, I need a hug. :(
D

Posts: 1056 · Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 7:45 pm

*huge hugz* I think that alot of people are going through this recently... I am not sure why... but I know pretty much everyone I know who isn't one of those sickening 'so made for each other' couples is having doubts and problems... *shrugs* just thought I would throw that out there... been through it myself even though i do have a good relationship, just seems to feel a little off lately. So much *hugz* and Love just for you Mystic67

Light, Love, and Blessings,
Nyte

Posts: 36 · Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 11:11 pm

A lot of people I know and have spoken to have been having similar problems - though here there seems to be a huge amount of relationship total breakdowns - including my own!!

Not an easy time - keep your chin up and I'm sure things will come right. Boy I should take some of my own advice!!

Love and God bless...

Mel

Posts: 173 · Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:25 am

Hey I'm a part of the club too! Here is a huge hug. It sucks right now but things get better eventually.

Posts: 4 · Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:36 am

Aww! *gives you a huge hug and a cookie*

Here's some ideas that you can try (if you haven't already):

1) Go on a date similar to one that you and your significant other did together at the beginning of the relationship.
2) Brainstorm with your partner to think of a new hobby that both of you can do together, and both enjoy.
3) Relax, and live in the moment.

It might help... it might not. Good luck! *hugs again*