Oh Goodness..
everything relationship-wise ive noticed is going crazy lately.
if it was meant to be it will be, sometime people have stupid ideas and need to fall on their face to see the were wrong. if they dont, they arnt worth it.

im in the same boat.. my bf and i just recently had a falling out..  we were both getting ready to move in together and alot ect... it sucks bcause we both have feelings still.. but his gaurd is so up from lies people have told him and him just plain feeling like giving up,(and many other things going on cuurrenty). we are so sickly compatible too, lol seriously... but ill keep my crap to myself lol

but you never know whats going to happen, and everythign happens for reasons! and every relationship goes through crisis, if it comes out bad:its a lesson learned and there is something better. and if it comes out good: your realationship just went through a trial and you will be all the stronger!

hope the best for you my dear. stay strong!

Be Positive, hold your head up high and know that everything will eventually turn out for you!

Take Care and be Safe!
Jose

relationships have been going crazy, or maybe just MEN lol.

Sweety, it sounds like they were in an abusive relationship. As horrible as these things are, they're also often difficult to get out of completely. But, once out, with complete closure, the incredible relief that follows confirms that u definitely did the right thing for u!
Allow him to get his closure. If he doesn't and instead chooses to stay with her, then he is a very weak man, the likes of whom u do not really want to be involved with.

Remember, "if u love something, set it free......(u know the rest....)