I am new here but feel very safe and could really use some hugs and good thoughts not just for me but my hubby. Short version is we had to take his dad off life support aug 20th and now his fav. uncle has bone cancer everywhere and has less than 2 months to live (more like days). I am trying to be supportive for him cuz he is really hurting but i havent had a chance to grieve myself worrying about him and my sons. Just guess i need to know that the occasional selfish thought that i need a hug and shoulder from him to lean on is not wrong. I just refuse to let him see my hurt. 20 years is a long time to be in a family and not feel the pain too.
sorry for the bummer mood. Just pray to the goddess for us. It seems that is all i do!!

thanks for letting me rant and whine
moonfaery

BIG ANGEL WING HUG to you!
Hang in there.. things will get better if you believe they will.

Yups, BIG ANGEL WINGS HUGS to you! That is very awful, indeed.

*Hugs*

sweetie here is a huge hug....much love and huggies

Here's the biggest hug I can find for you! I know what you mean about not wanting him to see your pain. Just remember, helping someone else with their pain is one of the best ways to ease your own. Let him comfort you; it'll do you both good. It's your call, though, you know him best. You'll know when the time is right. In the meantime, lots of hugs!