Sending you warm and loving thoughts.

Though times may seem tough at the moment things will improve.

As for finding your true love it has taken me 33 years to find mine.
I had the divorced upbringing and do not blame my childhood for my adult decisions I am my own person and therefore my choices and mistakes are mine.

One thing I find hard to deal with in this life is 'injustice' the thought of 'right' not always prevailing as I grow older I have learnt, though it is still difficult, to release those feelings it is a minor irritation compared to what we could be going through.
I do not want to diminish your feelings, that is not my intentions, just show you we all go through what you have been through and make it to the other side.
Stay strong

Hi Fate7523 For the first part I wont comment, my concerns are your  relationship with your dad

Quote;  how my dad acts  towards me, being so distant and very polite, that's not how he is! He used to talk to me as if he was actually my dad, never used words such as "please"...

My feelings on this is that your dads feelings have not changed towards you, I don’t know if you have told him that your happy for him but showing him would put him more at ease, seeing you talking to his new wife sharing a joke ect.. will soon bring back the dad you knew  

Quote; I don't know why I never had success in finding a that special someone.

You said your 18yrs please slow down you have your whole life ahead of you to plan and save for your own special family and its needs, at 18 you have only just gained freedom use it well, at your age there’s nothing wrong with ambition and make something of yourself, travel and enjoy your youth before you loss that freedom

                                                      Blessings Decia

Thanks for all the kind words!







My dad never talks to me about these kinds of stuff. We never discuss anything of this matter. Even when he divorced my mom, he doesn't even ask for my opinion, or gets me involved because as father and son, we do not have these kinds of talks. Everything was passed through my older brother and sister (kind of), who then tells me the whole situation.

My mom had suspicions that the reason he divorced her all of a sudden because of a minor argument turned big was because of this woman. And recently, my older brother confirmed that there was indeed a woman involved, and she has been with my dad for a few years. That was when we all were sure that my dad had an affair.

I don't blame him, honestly. I just really hope that the woman really loves him and will take care of him, and is not after his money, that's all I care about. On the other hand, my mom blames him for tearing up a family her and my dad worked hard for.

Huge hugs to you!

Yeah, that sounds like a pretty rough situation! I'm in college now, and it's not getting any cheaper unfortunately.
Hugs to you again!