Hi everybody, I need a hug/advice/affirmation....
I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months. He is married but getting a divorce...so he says. He has 2 daughters as do I. He says he's being extra careful so he can get custody of the girls. I believe in the benefit of doubt and sympathize with his situation but I'm a doer not a sayer. I'm a busy single mother of 2 and a full time student. But I can always make time for somebody I care about. He hasnt been able to come and see me for four weeks now and all the excuses drive me crazy. I dont know what to think or do. He constantly txt messages me and every night I up txting him sometimes til 4am. He says that he wants to be with me so bad, never met anyone like me and cant wait to be with me blah, blah, blah but his actions or lack there of...speak louder than words. Am I right in feeling that if he truly wanted to be with me he would've made it happen atleast once this last four weeks? I just have a feeling that there is more going on than he's telling me...dunno..maybe another girlfriend, maybe he really doesnt have any intentions on leaving his wife...why would he be stringing me along?
btw...I'm not into dating married men, his daughter told mine that they fight all the time and that mommy is mean to daddy, he said that they havent even slept in the same room in year and a half.
If anybody can give me an outside perspective I would really appreciate it. Thanks

Hi Kelly..

Unfortunately, I think that you are right.  I think he may be stringing you along, and you shouldn't be waiting for him. I feel the same way that you do, he should be making time and not excuses.

From my personal experience of dating a married man and being in a situation similar to yours, my advice is to let him go.  You said that you have been dating for 2 months, but you havent seen him for 1month. That doesnt sound good at all.  This early in the relationship, he should be on his best behavior with you, but he doesnt seem to be doing that.  

In my situation, it was a combination of things.  He wasn't quite ready to end the relationship with his wife even though he had moved out and had his own apartment, and he was also testing the "single" waters to see if life was truly going to be better out there than what he had with his wife.

Not sure if this helped much, but when all else fails trust your intuition.  Your spirit guide will never send you down the wrong path..

Love, Light, and Hugs..

Thanks for the affirmation...My intuition is telling me that something just isnt right and I think its time to trust it. It kinda sucks but the whole situation puts me in a bad mood everytime I think about it and my kids and I deserve better than what he's giving. Again thanks:)

sweetie here is a huge hug....much love and huggies