I met this woman about 5 years ago, She came to me for a reading, Since then I have stopped reading her, She has learned alot about herself and her own insight, When I met her she was at the very end of a divorce, She had found a man that listened to her and they had a very brief encounter,
She went to a psychic that told her this new man was her soulmate, I told her not to put that lable on anyone, She got really upset. But moved past that, I would read the cards and they never showed anything in the romance dept for her. She didn't like that either,
It's been 5 years and her obsession for this man has not broke,
She started going to other psychics, maybe 1 a month, She started pulling her own cards ect.. All these psychics and cards said the same thing, He's almost ready for you. You're almost there with him, One psychic told her that he was going to call her, and he did. Which he had never done before,
She lives everyday of her life waiting for this guy,
I pulled her a year spread the other day, She didn't like the outcome of them. I've been routing for her and cheering her on, Maybe they are right, maybe soon! Talking about him with her, ect....
Yesterday I found out from his son, that the guy and the son can't stand the sight of her, The son got really angry just thinking about her.
I was actually really shocked. The guy has a girlfriend and has had one since June 2008! But yet he called my friend in july to go hang out.
I don't read her cards on this subject anymore, so I'm feeling really blind sighted, Like I shouldn't of been cheering for her.
I should of known! But I haven't looked into it!
Maybe I should of been looking into it this whole time?
Gosh I just don't know,
Anyhow, Now I'm at a point of what I should do, Should I tell her,, Should I back off the cheering section, I should avoid any talk about him, It's none of my buisness,
I've known forever that this guy wasn't going to give in, But I kept saying you never know,
But to find out that he can't stand the site of her, really just blows me away!
I keep telling her not to put this guy in a box, she should allow others to have this chance to be with her, but she doesn't want that, she only wants him, he's unavailble, not only in the relationship aspect but in all the others also.
I don't know, I guess I feel like I should of been guiding her differently, instead of being a friend. But I was hoping that staying positive about him would raise her confidence level
These are two 40 yr olds I'm talking about. But yet it's more like teenage love, She sits by the phone, she wonders if he's thinking about her, but yet she won't make a move to talk to him!!!!
With no movement there's no real confirmation so she sits around waiting for one day that maybe he'll ask her out.
What do I do in this situation?

Hugs and positive energy to you.  I think you need to tell her about the guy and tread carefully.  Maybe the woman may not believe you at first but she may believe you later on.

I just got a message from my guide
I was told that, The reason I was so shocked and didn't see it coming, was because I have been busy living my own life instead of taking on others.
That makes alot of sense, Because I've let my secret out, People I know expect me to know everything, which i don't!
I play stupid so much that my normal common sense even eludes me!
I've been so busy doing what I want "Living" that I've neglected this other realm!
That made me feel better.

Thank you star for your advice also.

sweetie here is a huge hug and lots of positive energy....much love and huggies

Heya Kybunker

You know what??  I think even if you did tell her that this isnt the man for her she wouldnt listen.  Shes going to different psychics and feeds off what she is wanting to hear!  Bet she never tells you about the psychics that dont tell her what she wants to hear.

I honestly dont know what i would do now, this would hurt her so much!  Shes in LOVE with this guy.  Damn love, has a lot to answer for!!

Hugs and stuff