My current bf has a 2 year old child from his previos relationship., i get the feeling the time is coming where he will come over and ask me what i wanna do with our relationship, be with him or stay here with the life i have now. I wanna be with him so badly but since i'm 23 years old the thought of me becoming a step mom is completely mind boggling to me, yes i've always wanted kids but i thought it wouldnt be until waaaaay later in my life, and since shes not really my daughter how am i gonna deal with it? i'm worried i may not love her like shes my own, and hell i'm still kind of a kid myself, i dunno how i would handle being a mom now, i just need some advice from step moms or dads at this point or anybody for that matter

I think you should not go further in this relationship .......as you said you feel you are still a kid yourself so i think you can understand the feeling of that child .....living with a mother who dont have any love for her , it would be good to stay away than feel guilty afterwards ,
a huge hug and positive energy for you. God bless you.

uhh....no i'm gonna go as far as i can with this relationship, i already talked to him and a few other people about it and he showed me pictures of her and i honestly felt a bond with her when i looked at the pictures so who knows. and yes i said that but i was panicking i'm good now!

Hi
Scorpio's are very very very loving people...
when I was 18 my boyfriend had an 8 year old daughter, it wasnt a problem to love her.. when I was 23 I had an 87 month old child, if your feeling nervous its only natural, the best advice I could give is to get to know the child before you move her into your life..
Good luck and always be honest with yourself and partner

thank you!