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lucky69
Age: 27 Zodiac: 
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 3:33 am |
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i've been where you are... Best thing you can do is support him and offer him an alternative, if you mean something to him chances are he will change his addiction. but don't leave the relationship until you have offered your helping hand...
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sietefhc
Age: 41 Zodiac: 
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Posted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 6:42 pm |
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I will pray so that he comes to his senses and notice that he is not only hurting himself but
the peolpe around him...
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Rosiee
Age: 42 Zodiac: 
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Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2008 3:35 pm |
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When I was your age I was in a relationship of 3 years with a person that was addicted to coke.
It was a complete rollercoster ride. Emotionally and phyically I was wiped out. He didn't want to lose me, so he went to counseling and the counselor told me that he was doing it for me and not for himself and that he would suggest that I leave him. I loved him to much to just leave him. I tried everything to help him. Key word again was I tried, while he would be getting high with his buddies.
Like you, I seen crystal clear how this relationship was going to end. Unlike you, my empath heightened. I would know where he was in neighborhoods I didn't even know, even the exact house and cars he was in. It was crazy. I would go looking for him and it's as if I wasn't even driving. A lot if other strang happenings, but to many to list. Today, I'm not as sensitive as I use to be.
Anyway, we were once on vacation and everything was finally perfect. He was talking about "forever" and without thinking (as if someone else spoke), I said, as soon as we get home we're going to break up and be friends. I felt such release.
Relationships should be about love and all that good stuff - I didn't think this was a relationship of love, but like a purpose. At least that's the only way I could explain it.
Big hug - Rose
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