sweetie here is a huge hug....much love and huggies

Helllo! Hearing your situation really tugged at my heart strings. There isn't much worse than feeling a swarm of negative energy around you on top of your own inner turmoil like you are experiencing with your ex. :( I'm really sorry to hear someone would say such mean things to you about the things you have gone through. It sounds as if your ex is not really being supportive of you, but you are deserving of love, understanding, and compassion whether he sees that or not. Don't let the opinions and hurtful remarks (about the rape or miscarriage) that people impose on you affect you. You have every right to need to deal with those things and to feel your feelings before letting them go, otherwise, proper healing would not occur.

The best thing you can do for yourself is find things that are uplifting to you, and seek out the company of those who will seek to understand and cherish you. You deserve it!

well... i can't offer any advice but here's a very sincere hug witth plenty of love & concern. Take care!!

there is always a solution. i pray that u find it.
relax everything will be alright.

Huge hugs from me as well.
Sadly most males just dont get it and because we are ruled by our genitals most days emotional responceability is lacking.
You are a wonderful vibrant person that allows yourself to be swept away with the flow of the river instead of floating in the millpond.Any friend that blames another for getting in such a serious situation such as rape is not a friend i would see again.
People like that should be cut off and never seen again.
You dont need to be a victim when you can be a warrior, Cheer up and take life on with both hands.

Cheers Pete