Already did it but didn't help it ended with more and more relapses.
Anyway I have decided to go one way that is already helping me and I think it will make forget her sooner than expected.

I have been where you are. You have to forgive inorder to move on. It does not mader if she knows or not. Her feelings don't play apart of your life. Your feelings matter and if it hurts to talk to her then don't. Don't let her run your life or bring you down. Its not worth it. Forgive then move on. You can remeber the mistake of being with her and don't do what I did and get involved with another person like your ex. The next time you find someone make sure she has meet you standards you want out of a girl before you get to involved. It makes it hard to find the right person but you will. You are young still you have time. god has someone out there for ya just be patient. I will be praying for ya. May God Bless.

There are those situations when it is a bit hard to forgive but remember that forgiving will help you to release your burden. Just forgive her and don't worry if she will or she wont know it. And time will give you the opportunity to let her know that you've forgiven her and she will appreciate it.

A gigantic hug for you,

Thanks for the hugs and avices,

tio,

Well, you know, it's "funny" whan I think about it, the thing is after the break-up I was quite happy(as "happy" as I could be I mean) that at least we remained as friends, since I was quite sure I was gonna lose her completely. In the following days she was apologizing for all the pain she caused me during the time we had "for think" but she also said one thing that I didn't consider important then. It really was, she just wasn't apologizing for what she had done and said to me before but also for the things she would do to me very soon. And she did and I wasn't ready to handle that kind of sincerity in our friendship, I mean it just less than a month since we have split up so there are some things that are very hard to hear, especially if she told them like you were just her friend. So after that things went to hell even if I didn't told her I wasn't ready for hear that kind of things and details so soon, I guess she felt it. But she didn't cut contact with me for not hurting me she did it because I was no longer neccesary or useful for her, she didn't tell me but I could feel it and that was what really disappointed me, I didn't expect something liek that from her. Since then relationship is officially "dead" and nothing is going to change, at least not in a very long time. It's sad but sometimes life is like that you have everything and lose it almost without noticing it.

About forgiving her, well you know everyday is different but you can't live hating someone there's no point on it and even if I would want to, I know I couldn't I still owe her a lot anyway. Right now, I just want to have good experiences with other women that help me think: "She wasn't hat great." and improve my shattered self-steem but yes, I guess I'll forgive her with the time I alredady did in advance without noticing it.