Hi Birdybythesea,

I don't have advice, just life lessons.

I am not with the man that I have loved for 10+ years because of others.
(Our fault, but we are working on it).

We are Stealing moments right now, for this reason. Still not right.

If you don't love your currant man,(your reasons for staying), I wouldn't.

You bring up arguments with the ex, (your reasons), are they so bad
that you can't stay with this one?

I believe that you are in love with the ex, but is it the kind of love that you want?
15 years is a long time. Are you willing to find out? You both have grown and changed.

You have to ask yourself these questions and others. But most importantly, you have to answer
YOURSELF truthfully.

Lots of love to you.
Karlene

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Grandpa,

NAH! Let us just focus on the hug! *Advice* always comes aplenty like the care-packages from developed countries to the third world countries, Too much, but quite a bit too late!

Love, Light, Let us pitch in ...

I think you should take the right decesion that will make all of you 3 happy and satisfied.Will you truely be happy with soemone with whom you are not honest with your feeling.This will be a burden on your heart by never saying how your felt and it would be like you cheating on his feelings.

You should let your current boyfreind how you feel exactly.You got this responsibilty towards the elation you have with him.Then see what he got to say about it.if he agrees and decide to part ways with you then you can start over with your ex.

Karlene's advice is a great one.Pay heed to it.

Huggs and love to you,


dhav

sweetie here is a huge hug...much love and huggies