sweetie here is a huge hug...i also agree with tourbi and psychic chef....im also sending u some positive energy...take great care of yourself and your child...much love and huggies

Hey Keytah,
I'm not a psychic and I cannot see the future but I can tell you ....do never regret and feel bad
about what you've done... It was something you wanted to and you've got all the right to do
whatever you want as long as you don't hurt anyone! And even if you make mistakes it's still
OK!!!
My advise would be to take care of your baby because no one will ever love her as much as you do!
And be careful with this person...he doesn't seem to be a really good person...
And remember that rich people can be really cruel sometimes!
Your daughter deserves love...and so do you...
Just find somebody who will love both of you...love you for  REAL!!! (And trust you as well...)
And remember that you can't change him...people don't change because we would want them to...

Lots of hugs and I wish you all the best!
Take care...

Hi Keytah,

First off, a HUGE HHHUUUGGG,positive energy and love to you.

You have a lot of good advice here. I trust Pete and Tourbi with everything.
I haven't gotten bad advice from any one here.

I don't have advice, just my life lesson to share.

I have been married 4 times in 20 years. Good/ Bad, all relationships are.( long epic story) There are 2 sides to every story
and then there's the truth. You know exactally what I mean here.
2 of them were very bad.
Soul Flower has asked "if you had 3 wishes", others have asked "do you have any regrets", " what would you change"?
I have thought about this for 20 plus years. I have four FANTASTIC kids, 2 of them I would not have if I changed, regreted, or wished, for anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Their dad is not good. Lies, breaks promises, ect... all the time. My other ex, with my first 2 kids, treats my second 2 the same as his. He is a great guy.

I'm just telling you all of this, so that you know someone is out there, that is right for you and your Daughter.

It took me 32 years to find true love, 10 to make it happen. I didn't believe in this kind until now. If I can live and learn,
there is hope for you, hopefully much sooner than I. I just put this to you so that you know in advance, where I have to do the hind-sight thing.

You are a very strong young lady who knows what to do. You love your daughter and yourself. That's all that matters!!!

Lots of love to you and your daughter.

Karlene

I have not read all the replies that you have received.

If you are a good mother, do not doubt yourself.

I doubt that he wants this affair to be out in the open, as it will be much more damaging to him.

To deny the paternity test is to say you have something to hide, and if he wanted to go to court to get the child then he can get a court order for a paternity test anyway.  

You saying no will not stop him if taking your child is what he wants to do.

Give him the assurity that you are genuine.

Just because he has money does not mean that he can take your child away, you could sell your story to a tabloid and get the money to pay for a defence if needs be anyway.

I believe if you do what you know is right then things will work out.

THough on that note, i would reccomend that you maybe stop your liason with this gentleman, he is married and though he may not take his vow so seriously you should.

I do not judge you, It takes 2 to tango and no matter what happens and who has done what there is 50% percent blame for the continuation of this affair, and the karma will follow you.

HUGS AND BEST WISHES!

Wow I am so sorry that you are going through that!! The only advice I am going to give is please just search your heart and soul , you will find the right answers!
This guy sounds like a dud.

HUGS TO YOU!
Tanya