Ok, I'm very p.o. today because one of my friends well about-to-be-ex-friends at my job training program was very upset that she hate the program and doesn't belong in this program in groups. I told her that people are very sick and you should be out of the program and get a job. She told me I don't want to listen to your advice so don't get me started. Hey she told me advices when I'm upset and I listen. And now I give her advices and she refused not to listen! She's more psychotic than the rest of the clients. FYI the clients are adults and severely mentally disabled.                        

Well all you can do is back off and let her think about the issues....You put your hand out there and she didnt feel she needed it so you did offer......It sounds to me she is just a little stressed and also upset....Sometimes when people arent happy in their life or a situation they take it out on others,even tho they dont mean to.

Heres some *huggles* and my love going to ya.


Tamara :o)

Hey Bartman,

Chill.Soul-flower said right.Now take it easy.Maybe your friend will realise her wrong gesture and come to you.If not take it easy and live your life.Huggs to you,

dhav

Give yourself and your friend some room to clear the air.  We all do it at times.  Part of being friends is accepting the hardest, most difficult parts of them, while taking care of ourselves.  Take care of yourself and let them have the room they need to become a friend again.

sweetie here is a huge hug...much love and huggies