Sometimes when we're stressed out we bite the hand that feeds us. You tried to reach out and she didn't want it. It happens.

Don't take it personally and don't be attached to her outcome. It is probably not a rejection of you or your friendship. She simply does not want the help right now. Remember that even though you have taken her help in the past, we are creatures of free will and she is not obligated to take your help. Rather than be offended, know that you were a good friend who tried to assist.

I agree with the other posts here. Step back quietly, and just carry on with life. Don't keeping offering help or you will become more resentful when she doesn't want it and she will become more resentful that you keep doing it. When she is ready to join her circle of friends again, she will come back. Some people need to fall on their butts and pick themselves back up.

~Solwynn