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Posts: 5109 · Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 5:19 am

Dear Ani,

Everyone will give advices and how they have succeeded and also sympathise with you. I shall give you one of my personal experiences. I alongwith my wife had to see a number of girls for betrothal to my eldest son. We must have seen at least 25/30 girls. (In India we have the arranged marriage system) . According to my nature I liked every family we visited. My wife was more fussy. I asked my mother, who is now 84, how to know which girl is best and how to choose. How can we be sure that our selection is right. This is what she told me: "Son you don't have to select her. Your Heart will say yes then you can be sure that the selection is right and I exactly followed her advise and we are all very happy with our Daughter in Law.

For you to get success in this you have to meditate, live a life where you give more to the society, to others so that you get all those positive energy to come back to you at the right moment like the one you want. Whatever good you do to others always comeback with redoubled force and let that be a positive force. When you have done this your mind and heart will be every more pure and you will get the correct reply i.e. correct selection of the boy for haven't you done so much good to others.

Try it anytime and see the success. You can first try by selecting your friends, job or where ever else you have difficulty but follow the above path. Definitely you will get a most handsome, innocent and loving boy in your life.

God Bless You.

Pravin Kumar

Posts: 155 · Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 9:28 am

sorry for the late reply, I didnt feel good lately. just wanted to say thanks again for your advice and support, you`ve helped me a lot!
God bless you!

Ani

Posts: 1248 · Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:42 pm

Ani wrote:

Dhav, Mollisa, Tamara, Karlene, Psychic Chef, Taraprincess, Pravin Kumar, Tourbi,

you are wonderful, amazing people, you make this place very very special. you`ve helped me a lot, thank you so much for being you! at the moment Im in the stage where my heart is still longing for him but my head has already cooled down, and thanks God Ive got enough brains to listen to my head not my heart.

Psychic Chef thanks, your a sweety as always, I agree with what u say, men dont always think of the emotional side of the things but when someone ends up being hurt as a result of their actions, they should have the guts to face the problem and not run away from it, though I dont think its strictly a gender issue, there are many women like that too, so we do suck sometimes too lol. your a great guy and if you were single I would date you straightaway, but from ur posts I know how much you love your wife, shes very lucky to have u

huge hugs to u in return!

Pravin Kumar, I loved your story, I have two mini lions at home (cats that is), and Im hugging them up right now

) thanks for your kind words, I will move on, its just a matter of time.

Tourbi - thank you. u r right, I was lucky to get rid of a person like him, he does have a huge problem - he has no self-respect. he only humiliated himself by being so mean to me. though deep in my heart I know he feels guilty for what he`s done, but he`s not a man enough to admit it.
on a side note, I have a weird feeling he will still play some role in my life, I swear I dont want him back and I wont take him back even if he falls on knees and begs, but I just cant get rid of this feeling.

Tamara -Im sorry hon u r going through hard times too, big big hug from me to you in return. try to start getting him out of your heart like Im going to do, get rid of everything that reminds u of him, delete his photos, delete his messages, his number from ur phone..there are other worthy guys out there, we will definitely meet our special ones someday

Taraprinces - thank you, many many hugs to you too. I`ll pm you, if its ok.

Karlene - thanks again, Dhav`s picture is wonderful, thanks for your advice.

love u all!
Ani xxx

u very welcome sweetie and of course its ok to pm me u could pm me anytime im always here for u and many hugs right back at ya always....and we love u right back....much love and huggies