for the past couple of days i've been feeling really okay with things that i feel starting to change like really excited about it, today i woke up feeling extremely terrified that things are about to change and i can feel them changing which is scares me more. and i keep asking myself if i'm ready and will i ever be ready for my bf fast paced life, his intense love for me, his many friends and family,  i might be panicking over nothing as usual but i am scared to death!! i am ready but i am scared just the same!!
And i'm trying so hard not to run from this its really diffacult not to but i'm trying not to, i'm really scared though

Hugs and all the best to you. Take some time to meditate & slow down your thoughts.
As Rabbi Nachman so beautifully said, "The entire world is a narrow bridge, but the main thing is not to fear."

Hi WLB,



A great hug to you.you should not feel afraid.everyone get afraid when something new is beginning as you feel insecure.well always believe that wherever you are going it's going to be fine and safe.

dhav

thanks you two!! *hugs*

Hey WLB,

You are FINE. You are trying to find a problem where one doesn't exist.

Take a breath, you are not afraid of change(pm me to know why I say this), you are afriad of not being in control.

Go back and read all of the things you have said here. You have been through bigger changes than this. ( I "feel", right or wrong), that you actually look for change.

Now you are not following your instincts, gut, 6th sense, whatever you want to call it, you are second guessing yourself.

Sit down, take 5 DEEP BREATHES, and remember why you fell in love with this guy in the first place.

I know you know the answer.


Lots of love to you both.

Karlene