You are going through a lot right now. I see that you are the same age as I was when my children were that age. It can be hard to be there dealing with them by yourself mostly(my childrens father was a long distance truck driver when they were small) but you soon they will be thriving and the terrible twos dont last forever! People told me boys were easier to potty train, but my son proved them wrong as well!
Sending you prayers and love, I do know what you are going through. Just like you said in your post...you actually had time to post. Ask spirit to give you a moment so that you can have some time 4 you. It doesnt mean you are neglecting your children...just recharging your batteries!

Never forget to nurture yourself, even if only for a few minutes a day.
Blessings to you and your little ones. May you always have what you need when you need it ((Mommy hugs))
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