So there is this girl that keeps trying to come between my boyfriend and I, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 62 · Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:32 pm

I sent her a message online today saying that I respect their friendship but to keep her hands to herself..
Because earlier today my friend was talking to my boyfriend and this girl kept trying to touch him and he just kept pushing her away..
She will never get anywhere but it is a bit of an annoyance and she cannot seem to get over him as she is an ex on top of everything else

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Posts: 2640 · Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:41 pm

I'm 56, my partner's FIRST x-wife is that way. They have been divorced for a long time now.
He had another wife. The first does everything to get his attention.
Sit back and enjoy the show. Have compassion and trust your partner.
Lots of hugs,

it's not always easy, but always best to trust him. If you can't don't be there.

Posts: 1929 · Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:06 pm

just have lots of trust in your bf, if he pushes her away constantly thats a good thing! keep telling her to back off since thats your man now and not hers *huggles*

Posts: 2246 · Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:13 pm

Hi Wy,

I have to stick in my 2 cents.
Tourbi and I have a few years on you. She is exactly right.
I probably have more ex's than you'll ever dream of.
My advice-- do as Tourbi says.

Do not confront her anymore. He can handle it. If you let her know it's bothering you she will only do it more and more obviously. This will make it harder for him to get her to leave him alone.

A HUGE HHHUUUGGG Positive energy, and lots of Love to you.

Hang in there, she'll find someone else to bother soon.

Karlene

Posts: 701 · Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:36 pm

As a male clingy ex`s give me the sh*ts.

Im with the girls here, i dont think you will have to worry. He really couldnt care about her and you are a stunner

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Its no contest.
What you have to watch is that by telling her to back off once is ok but dont keep telling her or you will give her the idea she has a chance.
Cheers Pete