I am  35 years old.I have a 5 year old daughter. 3 months ago I had a IUD(inter-uterine death )  and I lost my baby at 6months of pregnancy.I have had  tests done and all are  fine but my placenta was calcified ,I had light bleeding at 3 months and later at 6months.the reason of miscarriage could not be found .Since then i am very depressive.I get angry very fast and take it out on my daughter.last night i hit her because she was being very adamant about watching T.V..Iam feeling very bad but donot know how to control my anger and my little angel.PLEASE ADVICE AND GIVE HUGS TO MY DAUGHTER.

Hi Dooly,

Her is a HUGE HHHUUUGGG, positive energy, and LOTS of love to you and your daughter.

Go give her another HUGE HUG from me and you.

Now go sit in your favorite place, relax, and breath.

I have 4 kids, I believe in spanking and have done it many times. They're ok, I'm ok. We have all learned. I have hit 1 kid for a reason not in their control. Felt like you. I lost my baby before the others were born. Took it out on myself.

I don't take outside help. I'm probably wrong, but I think I should fix things myself.

Being on this forum, I have learned there is a lot of help if you ask for it. And I have here, and I've gotten it (good for me, finally), a lot of help. I was wrong.Back to you!!!!!!!!!

If I got it, I refused to believe, but I think you have post-partom(spelt wrong, I'm sure,) depression. Please go get the help that is out there.

Be happy you have a 5 year old heathy daughter, that you could hit,( Don't hit her anymore), get help to be happy with the one you have,( which I know you are), grieve for the one who had to leave to help someone else, and pray for the next one coming.

You are a great person, and you just did the hardest thing, asking for help. Please take it.

This is the best place to help you. Maybe your child that died has led you here for a reason. This is the most positive place I have ever been.

We are here for you.

Another HUGE HHHUUUGGG, positive energy and lots of LOVE, to your whole family.
Karlene

Heres a *huggle* and some positive energy to help you....

Im sorry to hear that and that you're finding it difficult to move on.....I havent gone thru anything like that but i know its not easy......If you feel you need to seek help,please do....Ask for it,if you need to get outside help because you are finding it hard to cope,dont leave it to late,dont be afraid to....Im sure every parent has had moments where they arent proud of what they did or a situation they were in.When people are stressed or depressed the smallest things are so hard and seem to big to deal with....We all make mistakes,just tell your little girl you are sorry,and you love her,which you are and you do......We are all here for support and help if you need us.....Take care.


Tamara :o)

sweetie im sorry to hear that here is a huge hug to you and your daughter...and go give your daughter a kiss and a big hug and tell her u love her....much love and huggies

Try to be firm in establishing boundaries for your kid...they can be very selfish.you are also entitled to some time to yourself.hugs