Hallooo! How can things have gotten so bad? Do you always define as "friend" someone who beats you up and calls you names? I am aware that  in our teens we are ready to do everything and anything BUT risk losing "friendships". However, I believe you might be taking things a little bit to the extreme.

Not everyone who claims to be our friend is really what most of us define as a friend. I know many people who just are not able to treat their "friends" right. Sooner or later, we are all going to try and protect ourselves from this kind of people, usually by turning our backs on them. I have had to do this a few times and never regretted it. It's their loss and they had plenty of opportunities to do the right thing by us  and missed. So... if , then  

Hi  ,

"My best friend hates me", read what you wrote dear... If this person doesn't like you, how can you call her best friend? If this person beats you and kind use you when she needs your abilities, how can you call her best friend?

I said "bye bye" to many ppl that also did similar things to me, that's why I just have a few friends, but I'm sure they are my friends.
You are a good person, talk to her and say what you feel if she is really your friend and just has a bad mood, she will understand and everything will be okay but still try to meet more people.


Stay well

It's better to be alone than with a fake friend!

If you can't tell her what you feel face to face - WRITE HER a sincere, long letter and then avoid her for a while - let's see what she does then!

The letter thing works believe me!

Your friend sounds like a classic 'user'.

It would be really interestin to hear about her reaction to your letter of confrontation.

Deep inside, I don't think she hates me. It should be fine. Stress just makes people a little irrational.

She has been becoming nicer. I'm not expecting her to become a saint , just a better person if life allows it. She doesn't exactly have a comfortable family/financial life, so I'm supposed to bear that in mind. She's also someone who's better in caring for people. I keep close to people in belief that they would become better, I've sort of been known to befriend people who everyone else in school dislikes. And she does that too so at least I find that comforting in a way.

By the way, I'm a little on the degrading side because I find it impossible to look serious. When she hits, I scold her with a friendly manner.  That probably makes her think I find it fun so she keeps doing it. -____- I'm working on that. I just don't know when that 3 year old behavior would go for good.

It's going to be quiet for some time. I'll just keep a note to respond the next time she tries to contact me. She does have to return me my laptop anyway. I don't know how she got through the poster, but if she does fail it's technically an error of the group not working together. I'm just someone who coincidently had way too much free time. If I had my own projects to do, she wouldn't even have that laptop.

There's all these friendship sayings like Friend in Need and There when you need them. I failed that part though.

But thanks for the hugging and thoughts ...

By the way, if anyone here is intending to get a Vista. Don't. x___x It's evil!

A true friendship will survive this. If she really hates you, which is a very strong emotion, then she wasn't your true friend. You are a good person.
Big hug,

CaraCat