silk I hope everything gets better for you and I wish you all the best. I'm sure you have wonderful kids and they give you the strength and love that you need to go through this.

A BIG hug to you! ((((silk)))))


Stay with angels

here is a huge hug for u sweetie... much love and huggies

Love and Light to you! In my experience it has always been the worst of times that have made me grow stronger and wiser.  All of these things that "go wrong" are for a reason, and they always seems to happen all at once.  Take from these times what you can for your own betterment, learn from them and go on.  Even when things seem to stay dim, there are always little things that we can appreciate and make ourselves happy, even if it is only for a moment.  Think and see yourself in a better place and it will happen.  Surround yourself with people who are good for you, by this I mean the ones that make you happy, comfortable and comforted.  Steer clear of those who make you uncomfortable because with these ones there follows a trail of dismay.  Keep your head up, know things will get better.....HUG

heres a big hug for you..
I felt that way after 25 years of being with the same man.. We are now just friends and are no longer married.
Life is full of wonderful opportunities and you have been given another chance to find a better and more meaningful relationship. PLease EMBRACE your opportunity ~

You fix your marriage, by fixing yourself..YOU and YOU alone...stop obsessing about what your husband is and does..and focus on what you are and do.  Start with being positive about yourself...YOU are a good person, a good mother, a good human being.  YOU can be positive and happy.  If divorce is not an option..why not?   "Til death do us part" means the death of the love, and the relationship...not physical death....Stop hoping, and start believing in a brighter  moment...NOW..this moment...and act as if that is true.  SOON is will be.