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Posts: 762 · Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 1:13 pm

thank you all for your hugs and advice

I know what I should do, I just have to go to it! It just frusterates me how he is with children he says he loves. But we will pull through this! Thank you all again!!

Posts: 7 · Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 8:16 am

I know how ya feel. I went thru the same with my ex. The only diference is mine sexually abuse our duaghter and has so far gotten away with it. I have learned that if he has legal visitation and your kids dont want to go and you have to make them, just tell them that the judge says you have to go. That way its not you forcing them to go but the courts. I had to do that with my duaghter so she would quit hating me for making her. If you can get by without the child support then just let the court deal with it. Your kids should be able to get on some type of State ins. We have a Department of Humans services that has ins help. It is called here Soonercare. In Arkansas it is called Kids First. If you have a DHS where you live then check it out. I know some people hate welfare but to me the ins. help is not welfare cuase your kids need the ins. DHS has some other programs too that could help you out. Keep being nice to your ex when the kids are around becuase that make you a good mother. You put your feeling aside for your kids and I am proud that you do it. I do know how hard that can be. I still have to face my ex. and my daughter still has to go. You do what you can for your kids and do what is right and thats all you can do along with praying and putting your trust in God. I will be praying for you and your kids. May God Bless.

Posts: 762 · Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:20 pm

CCLady wrote:

I know how ya feel. I went thru the same with my ex. The only diference is mine sexually abuse our duaghter and has so far gotten away with it. I have learned that if he has legal visitation and your kids dont want to go and you have to make them, just tell them that the judge says you have to go. That way its not you forcing them to go but the courts. I had to do that with my duaghter so she would quit hating me for making her. If you can get by without the child support then just let the court deal with it. Your kids should be able to get on some type of State ins. We have a Department of Humans services that has ins help. It is called here Soonercare. In Arkansas it is called Kids First. If you have a DHS where you live then check it out. I know some people hate welfare but to me the ins. help is not welfare cuase your kids need the ins. DHS has some other programs too that could help you out. Keep being nice to your ex when the kids are around becuase that make you a good mother. You put your feeling aside for your kids and I am proud that you do it. I do know how hard that can be. I still have to face my ex. and my daughter still has to go. You do what you can for your kids and do what is right and thats all you can do along with praying and putting your trust in God. I will be praying for you and your kids. May God Bless.

I am sorry about what you and your daughter have to go through!!

I do tell my daughter that she has to go because the courts say she has to. I also have ins through the dhs for both of them. I got it as soon as I left him because I didn't trust him to keep it for either of them! I am looking into a new job, so that I don't have to depend on him for anything anymore. And when he calls me up to complain how the state treats him for not keeping up his end, I just say "and how is that my fault?" lol Maybe one day he will learn. His karma can't be very good at this point in time I would think.